Can you accept what is, and be present in the moment? Are you judging and calling things good or bad, instead of saying “we’ll see?”
“When people see things as beautiful, other things become ugly. When people see some things as good, other things become bad.” Lao Tzu.
Can you withhold judgement and be grateful for the unanswered prayers and choices you’ve made that have gotten you to where you are today. Maybe that broken leg, bad relationship, person you never got to date, etc… was a necessary part of you becoming who you are today.