Fire & Earth Podcast E107: Tapping Into Your Inner Genius with Saba Hocek

Have you ever had a moment while driving where you had to turn the music down just to concentrate on where you’re going? Well believe it or not, our very own brains generate this background noise that clouds our thinking on a daily basis!


In today’s episode we speak with Saba Hocek regarding how we can cut out the noise surrounding our everyday lives in order to help our inner geniuses emerge and reach our highest potentials

If you would like to learn more about Saba visit her website at: https://selfempoweredminds.com/

Listen in at: http://www.jasonmefford.com/fireandearthpodcast/

Transcript

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kathygruver: Hey everybody, welcome back to another episode of the fire earth Podcast. I am your co host Kathy Gruber.

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Jason Mefford: And I’m Jason Medford, and today we have a special guest, talking about a topic that I am very excited to hear about so Sava welcome.

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To the show.

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Jason Mefford: Hey, why don’t why don’t you first just just take a minute and let let the listeners kind of know a little bit about you and then I like I said, I’m excited to get into this topic because you told us what it was going to be beforehand and I got to find out what this is. So take it away.

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Saba Hocek: Okay, so, um,

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Saba Hocek: Well then I my get a good this is all about hypnosis, but my background is actually in computers. So I did that for many years, basically.

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Saba Hocek: Did application development and at one point I became very curious now how the mind works, me, me, because I’m very intuitive.

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Saba Hocek: And so, and my background I’m Turkish so we read Turkish coffee cups and it’s a gift that I have and I wanted to understand better how the brain works. Now, I was able to do this.

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Saba Hocek: So I figured hypnosis might be an interesting way to understand how the brain works. And we’re there. I just became fascinated with hypnosis.

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Saba Hocek: And I was an entrepreneur. I was self employed. So I figured, you know what, I’m going to give a workshop and teach people how to do self hypnosis for weight loss.

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Saba Hocek: At the end of that workshop, although I had no intention of changing my career, I began to get more and more clients and at one point I just said, You know what, I’m juggling all these things.

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Saba Hocek: I’m just gonna go for. I’m going to go straight into hypnosis, I can always go back to my application development.

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Saba Hocek: At any point. And that’s what I did. And since for the past 12 years I’ve been doing hypnosis and biofeedback which is essentially a computerized version of acupuncture. So I’m not only working with the client client in their unconscious unconscious mind but also down to the Oregon level.

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Saba Hocek: So we’re releasing stress blockages from the organs, as well as in the mind.

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Saba Hocek: And recently I developed a process called the genius activator, which helps us tap into our inner genius, because I truly believe that we all have an ingenious and it’s something that I’m really passionate about.

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Saba Hocek: Mainly because

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Saba Hocek: As a child, and primarily as an adolescent. I was told that by teachers that you know you’re just incompetent. Don’t worry about you just can’t do it and deep inside. I knew that wasn’t true.

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Saba Hocek: And it wasn’t until I had an opportunity where I moved to a new school. And I said, you know what I am going to prove it to myself and prove all those teachers. My past wrong that I am capable and then and intelligent and I did.

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Jason Mefford: When you’re in pretty good company to because if I remember right, Thomas Edison and Albert Einstein were told the same thing.

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Jason Mefford: So,

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kathygruver: Yeah, that’s, that’s great. I love that you had the like the chutzpah to say I’m proving you wrong because I see so many people who, after getting that feedback for so long.

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kathygruver: Start to believe it themselves. And they don’t you know it’s the dog that even once the the leash is taken off. They just kind of stand there because they don’t realize they could walk away.

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kathygruver: So do you think that’s something that was just born in you as someone you developed over time that ability to go, no, I’m going to prove you wrong.

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Saba Hocek: I think that it’s in my nature and for one thing. I’m very much of a go getter and my parents you so he’s just saying that, you know, from the time that I could crawl.

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Saba Hocek: If I saw something. It didn’t matter what was in my way I crawl over the table of the chairs, but I was headed for whatever that was. So I think that is partially my character I but wasn’t enough in my character.

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Saba Hocek: To be a I wasn’t strong enough at the time when the teachers were saying you’re incompetent to fight against that. It was only when I felt in a sense that I was in a safe environment, my brothers had already graduated, I wasn’t being compared against somebody

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Saba Hocek: And I thought I had an you know this was my one chance and opportunity to prove

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Saba Hocek: Everybody wrong and myself right and they didn’t know enough about me.

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Saba Hocek: And they didn’t. The sad thing is that my transcripts for all BS because they passed me

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Saba Hocek: So they didn’t have that judgment to say, oh, well, you know, she’s not a good student. Now they figured I was good.

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Saba Hocek: Interest and and those people very often that I see and why I, I just love what I do.

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Saba Hocek: Because it’s my opportunity to prove everything that other people have told them wrong that the negative things obviously

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Saba Hocek: And, you know, to, to open their mind up to say no, you’ve got potential

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Jason Mefford: Well,

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Saba Hocek: I’m sorry. Good.

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Jason Mefford: Well, no, no. I was just gonna say because you know we’ve had a lot of hypnosis on here.

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Jason Mefford: You know, two out of three are hypnotist right but but i but i do actually, you know, two to three self hypnosis sessions a day.

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Jason Mefford: For myself, right, because again, it’s one of those things that

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Jason Mefford: I mean, it’s a huge thing. I know a lot of people might be freaked out about it, but it’s like I’m telling you that’s been like one of the best things

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Jason Mefford: That I’ve ever done in my life, right, because we have all these stories we have all these things that are going on.

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Jason Mefford: And we got to kind of break through that. Right. And like you said, all of us.

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Jason Mefford: Have a genius inside. So how can we unlock it. So, so maybe let’s let’s start talking about that because the, the term genius activator. I’m like who give me more. Give me more. Give me more.

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Jason Mefford: And then, and then also from the biofeedback standpoint, you know how you’re actually, you know, getting, not just in the conscious subconscious mind but actually down into the body and the Oregon area where, again, there’s a lot of energy that’s trapped

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Jason Mefford: Trauma other things like that that are trapped in the body, too, so how how you’re helping people kind of release release that and get through it.

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Saba Hocek: Sure, so first of all, the biggest obstacle with reaching your genius is all the negative noise in your mind.

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Saba Hocek: So,

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Saba Hocek: If I’m trying to find a solution.

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Saba Hocek: And I’m thinking, how am I going to solve this, but meanwhile the noise is sitting there saying, you’ll never be able to do this, you’re not smart enough, you’re not good enough. Oh my gosh, if you don’t find a solution. You’re gonna get fired.

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Saba Hocek: Who can have your thinking with that type of noise going on.

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Saba Hocek: So the first thing we need to do is to erase those limiting beliefs erase those negative thoughts.

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Saba Hocek: And once we do that, then we can start having clarity.

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Saba Hocek: And when we have the clarity, only when we have clarity is when the motivation comes

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Saba Hocek: So often I hear you know people come and say, you know, I want to be more motivated

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Saba Hocek: Well, how can you be more motivated. If you don’t know where you’re going.

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Saba Hocek: And once we have that motivation.

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Saba Hocek: Then we start moving forward.

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Saba Hocek: And when we move forward. We start loving ourselves because we feel proud of what we’re doing.

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Saba Hocek: So we have to have that self love

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Saba Hocek: And when you have this self love

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Saba Hocek: Then you start reaching into your energies, because you’re trusting yourself.

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Saba Hocek: So all you doing at that point.

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Saba Hocek: Is unlocking

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Saba Hocek: No often people think that

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Saba Hocek: They have to

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Saba Hocek: Bring in something for that genius.

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Saba Hocek: But it’s within us.

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Saba Hocek: And once we have unlocked our inner genius.

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Saba Hocek: Then we the creativity opens up

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Saba Hocek: Then the intuition opens up

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Saba Hocek: And then we have abundance

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kathygruver: I love it. I want to go back to something you said about quieting that noise.

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kathygruver: And how can you possibly make a clear decision. How can you move forward with all this noise.

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kathygruver: And how many times are we driving around and we’re looking for an address. And what do we do, we turn off the radio.

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kathygruver: Or, you know, we’re trying to parallel park and we’re like that and we turn off the shelf doing something right just having that BACKGROUND NOISE THIS ACTUALLY, BACKGROUND NOISE

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kathygruver: Is distracting enough and we have these shattered thoughts 60,000 a day. So yeah, you’re right. How do we shut all that out and get into that that genius mind.

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kathygruver: So that’s the million dollar question. How do we shut out those thoughts because I know mine I you know as the Vaseline intelligent person.

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kathygruver: My brain has something to tell me every three to five seconds. So, as does everybody who’s listening, you know. So how do we do that, how do we go and just turn that off so that we can come up with that genius.

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Saba Hocek: Well,

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Saba Hocek: First of all, we need to understand how the conscious and the unconscious mind works. So we have a conscious mind. And that’s one that we’re aware of.

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Saba Hocek: The one that is has turned on the podcast. That’s the conscious mind.

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Saba Hocek: It’s only a very small percentage of our brain.

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Saba Hocek: Don’t have the unconscious mind the unconscious mind is a, you know, I look at it always like a computer or computers like the brain.

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Saba Hocek: It’s a massive data bank of information.

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Saba Hocek: But on its own is unable to analyze

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Saba Hocek: Like a hard drive. It’s got or or a flash drive. I’m dating myself here.

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Saba Hocek: It’s it has no capability on its own.

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Saba Hocek: And that’s what your unconscious mind.

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Saba Hocek: It’s a very simple mind. The one thing is it always wants to protect us. It’s a very compassionate mind.

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Saba Hocek: Now you have a right and left side of the brain right sides emotional left side is logical.

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Saba Hocek: And the information comes and it goes from one side to the other, keeping things nice and balance.

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Saba Hocek: Between emotional empirical

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Saba Hocek: Well, my something and that dream, let’s say, a child is given a chocolate chip cookie momentary brain freeze. Oh my gosh, this is so incredibly delicious and mommy said I was good girl.

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Saba Hocek: Well, guess what.

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Saba Hocek: Every time that moment comes where you’re feeling like you know i i did really well at work today. I truly hard

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Saba Hocek: And I was recognized for that.

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Saba Hocek: I don’t know why I feel like a chocolate chip cookie right now.

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Saba Hocek: Yeah, because that’s how we’re the unconscious mind is saying, Go get yourself a chocolate chip cookie. You’re a good girl.

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Saba Hocek: Equally, if something negative has happened. It’s the same thing. It’s going to want to protect us.

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Saba Hocek: So the first thing we need to do is we balance that right now side of the brain.

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Saba Hocek: So to remove the noise. First we have to see what the noise. It’s everything is about awareness.

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Saba Hocek: And that noise can be positive or negative.

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Saba Hocek: So,

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Saba Hocek: For me,

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Saba Hocek: I am a very motivated person.

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Saba Hocek: Somewhere in my unconscious mind, thankfully.

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Saba Hocek: It has kept close tabs on those things that have pushed me

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Saba Hocek: And I will say that I wasn’t this motivated until I changed schools and I went through that and and believe me it wasn’t easy because

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Saba Hocek: You can imagine the gaps in my education for years of teachers saying, Don’t worry, honey. You don’t mean just pretend like you did the homework that’s good enough.

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Saba Hocek: So I had huge gaps and I literally when I changed schools, I would work nonstop 48 hours straight, literally taking spoonfuls of instant coffee to make it through the day.

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Saba Hocek: But I was determined to make it because I was just tired of being told I was incompetent.

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Saba Hocek: But the fact that I did it is what my unconscious mind said, See, I told you can do it. Yeah.

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Saba Hocek: Then I had the problem of needing to retrain myself that

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Saba Hocek: I don’t have to work so hard in order to prove it.

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Saba Hocek: Because that’s also what my unconscious mind learned

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Saba Hocek: So it’s that noise. We need to hear

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Saba Hocek: And then shape.

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Saba Hocek: And we’re working in a hypnotic state.

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Saba Hocek: The conscious mind is quieted so we can hear those unconscious thoughts.

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Saba Hocek: And it’s much more susceptible at that point to listen. So we can receive swell as gifts and that’s not estate is and you know i know you both know this, but for the listeners.

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Saba Hocek: It’s not like you’re clucking like a chicken or barking like a talk, we are in and out of hypnosis all day long. When you go to the movies you are hypnotized.

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Saba Hocek: Imagine you’re watching the movie. There are actors. We know they’re actors. We know the story is not real. We’re crying or laughing or terrorized. How is that possible. And why does that happen more so in the movie theater than when we watch that same movie at home.

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Saba Hocek: First of all, first leader was turned down the lights.

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Saba Hocek: As soon as the lights go down arm mind will say, oh, it’s time to go to sleep. So our conscious mind quiets down

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Saba Hocek: Then the screen is huge. The speakers are blasting. It’s a sensory overload and just like you were saying before, Kathy when there’s too much noise, what we do.

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Saba Hocek: Need quiet the conscious mind. I need to turn it down.

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Saba Hocek: So that I’m not. I’m not. So I’m disrupted. I will this notes.

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Saba Hocek: So the conscious mind quiets down even more, the unconscious mind is thinking what we’re watching is real and it’s making a connection to that huge data bank of information we’ve compare making connections with our own life.

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Saba Hocek: Our own experiences and now or crying or laughing, whatever that emotion, maybe

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kathygruver: I think people forget how powerful the subconscious mind is

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kathygruver: We don’t think we

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kathygruver: Say something that sounds silly. We don’t think about the subconscious mind you know we just go through life, and we make these decisions and we get ourselves into these circumstances. And then we get to the end and go

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kathygruver: Why does it turn out that way. Why do I keep doing that. Why do I. Well, it’s the subconscious that’s informing you know 88 plus percent of our decisions. That’s where it’s all coming from this is why someone calls us

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kathygruver: Says I want to quit smoking. Okay, well then quit. If you could just quit. That’s your conscious mind saying that it’s the subconscious mind that unconscious mind it’s keeping you as a smoker.

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kathygruver: So getting into that subconscious. I know we can do it through hypnosis with the genius activator. Is there a specific technique you use, is it just sort of the general hypnosis that we would see doing anything else. Is there a little trick, you’re using. How do you tap into that.

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Saba Hocek: It’s a number of different processes that I’m using. Part of it is in a sense a traditional

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Saba Hocek: Induction of getting into a hypnotic or relaxed state.

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Saba Hocek: With a genius activator, there’s

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Saba Hocek: Two for getting into the negative or limiting beliefs.

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Saba Hocek: We are taking a look first at some of those negative experiences.

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Saba Hocek: And what happens very often is

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Saba Hocek: If I asked at a conscious level for the person to tell me some of their experiences, they’re going to, let’s say, Come up with five life experiences that they had

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Saba Hocek: Under a hypnosis, they may come up with five but only two of those are the same as the one in the conscious mind.

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Saba Hocek: And like, that was really minor. I don’t know why I said that

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Saba Hocek: Well, it may be minor for you today.

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Saba Hocek: But when you were three years old.

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Saba Hocek: And your brother cut off a hair of your job.

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Saba Hocek: It was major

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Saba Hocek: And that’s what we need to go by.

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Saba Hocek: So I don’t like to stay

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Saba Hocek: Too much in the negative. So when we go through the negative to have that realization

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Saba Hocek: But then I like I’m all about empowering the person that’s why you know the the

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Saba Hocek: With my company we say live life empowered.

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Saba Hocek: It’s all about empowerment. So I like them to move on to the empowering end of it. What experiences.

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Saba Hocek: Have made you who you are.

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Saba Hocek: And again at a conscious level, the response is usually, you know, I don’t think there’s anything I’ve ever really done in like, no way.

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Jason Mefford: But, you know, as humans, it’s funny because we think we don’t like the pain. We don’t like the fear, but we spend so much of our life in the pain and the fear.

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Jason Mefford: Because we feel safer. And again, it’s like, you know, we, how could this even make any sense. But, but we. That’s why we tend to be there so much of the time. Because I think when we start tapping into that genius. It’s like, oh shit. I actually have to do something now.

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Jason Mefford: And so yeah, even though to say it out loud right like fear is is more comfortable. Seems like it’s just not even true but it totally is.

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kathygruver: Yeah, no, it’s true. And it’s interesting because, to your point, Jason.

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kathygruver: Our brain is like you said so. But out to protect us. That’s what it does. It’s a caring brain it’s constantly scanning the environment for negative things to protect us. So in that way, we’re automatically looking for negative stuff.

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kathygruver: That’s how we’re wired and then our brain also is looking for things that are familiar to us. So if we’ve had a string of negative stuff.

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kathygruver: Our brain is more comfortable sitting in that negative stuff, it is safer to be in something that it knows, even if it’s scary dangerous mad, whatever.

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kathygruver: Then to step outside of that. That’s why so many women stay stuck in abusive relationships because to their brain being in that thing that’s familiar, even though it’s shit is safer for them than stepping outside of that.

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kathygruver: So stepping out you know quieting that subconscious starting to retrain ourselves. And it’s a

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kathygruver: It’s a long road, you don’t just suddenly start thinking, new thoughts you have to get yourself. You know, it’s like I’m gonna I’m gonna start running a marathon tomorrow.

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kathygruver: That’s stupid. And that doesn’t work, you have to train your brain. And I know so many that setting techniques that you use.

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kathygruver: As a hypnotherapist and with the biofeedback and with that so many of the phenomenal things that you do you’re helping us retrain our brain.

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kathygruver: How in your this is a not a trick question. It’s a hard one. How long does this take. I mean, like, when can we as the silly humans and these meat suits expect to start see changes in our lives. Is it something that can be instantaneous or is it a longer process.

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Saba Hocek: And first of all, we we don’t get to that point overnight of all those negative thoughts. So the, the fix is also not going to happen overnight.

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kathygruver: You know, it’s like you don’t treat the headache what’s causing the headache. Let’s get to the root cause shut out that noise.

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kathygruver: And remembering how powerful our subconscious is and that we do have control over it. I love handwriting analysis. I completely agree with you, changing the writing can change your into your subconscious. So Jason, any final thoughts.

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Jason Mefford: The other stuff when we’re writing, whether we’re speaking or writing. It’s not just the words, but the form in which we’re doing it. Probably the energy with which we’re actually saying the words as well.

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Jason Mefford: To help us start kind of understanding, you know, but but love the idea that, you know, again, regardless of who we are. We’ve experienced different things in our life that we’ve got to kind of clear out

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Jason Mefford: And really unlocking potential, but it’s it’s hard. You know, it’s but it’s like that old analogy of carrying a backpack with a bunch of rocks.

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Jason Mefford: Until you start getting rid of some of the rocks. It’s going to make the journey pretty difficult. And that’s what you’re doing, you’re helping people clear that stuff house. So then they can start fresh on now training yourself differently going forward to be successful so fabulous stuff.

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kathygruver: And then love space as you take those rocks out of the backpack. You can fill it with beautiful things like flowers and wine.

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kathygruver: So yeah, absolutely. Oh, sorry. This has been such a great conversation. Thank you so much. Hello, everybody. Hello.

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kathygruver: Oh, of course. How can everybody reach you, if they want to get in touch.

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Saba Hocek: As self empowered minds.com

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kathygruver: Beautiful. It’s right in the background there. Perfect.

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kathygruver: This has been amazing. Thank you so, so much for coming. I’m Kathy gruver I can be reached a Kathy group com

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Jason Mefford: I’m Jason method I can be reached at Jason method calm. So have a great rest of your week and we will catch you on the next episode of the fire and earth podcast. See, yeah.

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Saba Hocek: Yeah, thank you so much. Thank you both. And thank you, listeners.

E130: Real World Intentional Living with Sean Rosensteel

In this #jammingwithjason #internalauditpodcast I take a little break from the technical and professional aspects of our career to talk with my friend Sean Rosensteel about being more intentional in our living.

Many people put their head down and focus completely on only one or two aspects of their life and wake up years later wondering what happened.

It’s like going through school and only focusing on one or two subjects and come report card time realizing we failed our other courses. The problem is in the real world “failing courses” can often mean losing relationships, stress and regret.

Being intentional in our lives allows us to consider what really matters most at this point in your life, doing regular check-ins, course correcting, and finding lifelong learning opportunities and communities of like minded people in all aspects of our life.

If you’re the kind of person who wants to get the most out of life by being intentional and living a wholistic full life, then this episode is for you.

To get a free copy of Sean’s book “The School of Intentional Living” visit his website: https://www.seanrosensteel.com/

Transcript

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Jason Mefford: Hey Welcome everybody. I am excited to be with Sean Rosenstiel now we we had actually he was a guest on another podcast that I do.

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Jason Mefford: And I just got off on it. And I said, You know what, I got to have him back on because

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Jason Mefford: We’re so in line with a lot of the stuff that we’re thinking about and I just want people to be able to hear. So Sean Rosenstiel

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Jason Mefford: Is the author of the school of intentional living and Sean welcome maybe just just give a little background. I love the title of the book.

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Jason Mefford: I love kind of the metaphor that you use, but kind of your whole story as well that I think is going to resonate with a lot of people about how to actually have an intentional life and get what you want. So take it away, man.

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah. Well, thanks, Jason. Nice to see you again. Good to be here on the show. I appreciate it. Yeah. So I grew up with a very, I think conventional idea of success, like many of us do.

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Sean Rosensteel: And I was fortunate enough to go to college and after graduating. I graduated with a degree in entrepreneurship, believe it or not.

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Sean Rosensteel: I was the first graduating class when they rolled out that program and I actually took it by by accident. I was a marketing major my senior year, or my sophomore year.

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Sean Rosensteel: And I noticed that they had this entrepreneurship program that was available to sophomores and it required one less or for less credits.

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Jason Mefford: And marketing your marketing.

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Sean Rosensteel: So like that is me. I’m an entrepreneur. So I took it to have an easier senior year, you know, graduated with barely with

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Sean Rosensteel: By the skin of my teeth and went into business for myself and you know success to me back then was big homes and fast, fast, fast cars fancy toys status.

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Sean Rosensteel: Because I grew up with a lot of that. And a lot of my peers and their parents. It was just, I was surrounded. I was very fortunate upbringing, surrounded by a lot of those material things and

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Sean Rosensteel: I ended up actually making some very negligent decisions and I went bankrupt, just one month before my wedding. When I was 28 years old.

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Sean Rosensteel: And it was the first time in my life that I paused and took a breath and kind of reflected back on some of the decisions I had made leading up to that moment and I recognize that

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Sean Rosensteel: While I was bankrupt in the financial column of my life. I was bankrupt everywhere else. I was spiritually bankrupt, mentally, emotionally bankrupt physically bankrupt. I was a hot mess. Still am. In certain ways, depending

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Jason Mefford: We all are.

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Jason Mefford: I mean, that’s just, that’s just part of being human right.

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah, but I was in a pretty pretty dark place back then and I and I write a little bit about that in the book and the introduction, but

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Sean Rosensteel: I think I developed this mindset in school. I was a C average at best student

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Sean Rosensteel: You know, in school, I would learn something regurgitate the information on a test just to get by just going through the motions and then I would forget everything

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Sean Rosensteel: And I had borrowed a little bit of money after I graduated, my parents helped me out. Got, got on my own two feet with my business.

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Sean Rosensteel: And I can remember my attorney when we were finalizing the paperwork asking me, are there any other debts that you owe to any anyone else any company. We need everything out here.

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Sean Rosensteel: I said well I withheld one of them. I’d like to keep that off and he encouraged me to disclose 100% disclose everything strengthen the case, whatever it was.

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Sean Rosensteel: So I just, you know, like a lot of people do. I think I couldn’t afford you know online courses that was 10 years ago so online courses were, you know, they were available and they were very expensive.

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Sean Rosensteel: You could go to seminars and these four day things, but I didn’t have any money money to to speak of. So I went to the local library and I started checking out books and

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Sean Rosensteel: And I’ve been very fortunate over the last 10 years I’ve have reconnected with, you know, what I would call my, my higher power. I’ve strengthened my mental, emotional state. I’m in better shape today, knock on wood than I have been probably ever

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Sean Rosensteel: I have an incredible relationship with my wife. I have three beautiful, beautiful children.

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Sean Rosensteel: Great relationship and my parents, my siblings. I’ve reconnected with a lot of old friends that I lost along the way. I used to burn a lot of bridges. I had

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Sean Rosensteel: I was abusing alcohol and I just severe nicotine addiction. I was, I was a wreck. So I overcame that alcohol, tobacco, none of those things or anything really rules. My life necessarily that I’m aware of.

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah, I’m involved with some charitable organizations on the board for one that I care. You know, deeply about. So I just had a massive turnaround and

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Sean Rosensteel: For me, that pivotal moment was just taking charge and recognizing that the path laid out the template that I was living from

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Sean Rosensteel: And I think that template that a lot of us are living from this conventional template, it just didn’t work for me.

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Sean Rosensteel: And the more and more I talked about it with people and the more and more I was asked, Hey, what, what are you doing over there. Like, you seem to be getting some incredible results.

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Sean Rosensteel: I began actually teaching and coaching this to people about five, six years ago I created what I would call just a very simple kind of a real world approach at living intentionally

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Sean Rosensteel: And then it was recommended years ago that I write a book someday and I’m an avid reader. I’ve always appreciated.

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Sean Rosensteel: And admired these, you know, courageous authors for taking the time to clarify and organize their thoughts in the written word. The courage that they have to publish their work and

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Sean Rosensteel: expose themselves to public criticism and all the rest of it. So I thought, There’s no way I could do that. But then, of course, that idea, you know, took hold a bit and

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Sean Rosensteel: I didn’t really know Jason, how to write about intentional living because

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Sean Rosensteel: It’s such a broad topic. Number one, I think it means different things to all of us. I think we all have our own unique definition of intentional living and I don’t think there’s a wrong definition, by the way.

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Sean Rosensteel: And I also think there’s a lot of misconceptions around living intentionally and

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Sean Rosensteel: Being a purpose driven person and purpose in general, I think there’s just a lot of different ideas and and misconceptions, but late last year I was

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Sean Rosensteel: Doing a meditation I got into a meditation practice a few years back, and an idea, hit me like lightning and I couldn’t shake it and it was this idea that perhaps my approach that I thought I came up with all by myself.

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Sean Rosensteel: Was inspired greatly by the formal education system, which was ironic because I I wasn’t ever a fan of the formal education system. I was never a big fan of school. I had a horrible experience because of my own attitude probably

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Sean Rosensteel: And I didn’t want to give that thing credit. It was the least I, you know, the last thing I wanted to do but I’m like, you know,

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Sean Rosensteel: The way that I’m working my day to day and my goal is just everything about my life the way that I’m going about it. And this approach.

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Sean Rosensteel: Really does stem from my experiences back in school. So how can I extract the foundational lessons that were taught in school.

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Sean Rosensteel: And teach people and write about how to apply them in your life in the real world in a way that’s incredibly relevant incredibly relatable and in a way that’s flexible enough so everyone can take that information, make it their own and run

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Sean Rosensteel: And it’s been neat because you know being relatable about this topic was very important to me. I’ve read a lot of books are taken.

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Sean Rosensteel: audio programs or been to events that are just I can’t relate at all with the person I can’t relate at all with their approach.

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Sean Rosensteel: And it’s just there’s a conflict there, for whatever reason, and I don’t apply it and I end up waste. You know, I end up wasting my time.

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Sean Rosensteel: So having something that was relatable to people was very important. And I finally found my entry point late last year.

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Sean Rosensteel: Which is really exciting. And I’ve gotten a lot of great feedback about it. They’re like this metaphor of school is so neat because

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Sean Rosensteel: It put me right back there. I know exactly what you’re referring to. I know exactly how to take this tool strategy mindset habit, whatever it is, and apply it today because I already know what that’s about, you know,

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Jason Mefford: So, and that’s one of the reasons that I love it too because we were talking before you know I mean I’m big on lifelong learning.

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Jason Mefford: And have been, you know, try to get it because there were a couple of things, you know, as we were talking

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Jason Mefford: That you kind of brought up that I wanted to make sure and share with my audience too because I’ve been trying to say some of this stuff, but maybe you can say it in a different way.

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Jason Mefford: They’re going to get, you know, they’ve been listening to me forever in a couple of them were, you know, again, it’s that metaphor of schooling.

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Jason Mefford: And I think, you know, a lot of people that that are are listening. You were technical in nature, right, we’ve got we’ve gone through we’ve gotten a bachelor’s maybe a master’s degree.

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Jason Mefford: Multiple professional certifications. There’s always been kind of an academic bend to it, but I think so much of the time that we

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Jason Mefford: We stopped learning when we stopped going to school. Right. And like you said, many of us don’t actually learn in school, because we don’t have all of the four pieces.

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Jason Mefford: Of learning. We haven’t actually acquire the skills done the application of it and then actually exercise to experienced it.

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Jason Mefford: Right to get the full learning. Usually it’s just knowledge, take the test knowledge, take the test right even a lot of professional training. It’s like that knowledge, take the test you. You didn’t learn it right

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Jason Mefford: You know, I love that idea of how you know through your life and all of a sudden you kind of got that epiphany again of hold it, you know, learning is important.

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Jason Mefford: For my whole life. Right. And there’s lots of different options out there. I mean, you said you went to the library. First, it’s a great place

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Jason Mefford: They should have heard it by now. No, I’m saying if they’ve been listening to you forever. I think they’re probably getting

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Sean Rosensteel: So no, I love what you’re saying. And I think that happens to a lot of us.

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Sean Rosensteel: I was just talking about how in Napoleon hills. Think and Grow Rich, which is for me a classic. I’ve been reading that for many years. I read it about once or twice a year, and he talks about that how the vast majority of men. This is back in what 28 so

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Sean Rosensteel: As some things that maybe aren’t you know correct today, but the vast majority of men. Once done with school, no matter what level it is stop learning.

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Sean Rosensteel: And it’s one of the major reasons why people fail or feel like they fail or have a disaster in one area of life or the other. So I think what you’re preaching is so important. I’m a firm believer. I think learning at the end of the day for me. Jason learning saved my life.

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Sean Rosensteel: I mean, you’re in the intro. You know, I was suicidal. I was a total mess and learning was literally the key and living intentionally, you know, identifying what that was and figuring out what that meant to me and then living that life was key for me. But I think that

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Sean Rosensteel: A lot of people take this continuing education right for their profession.

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Sean Rosensteel: Right, yeah. I mean, did the first chapter of my book I talk about subject areas back in school and we have math, science, social studies, whatever.

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Sean Rosensteel: were responsible for whatever it is five to eight subject areas and we can’t do well and five and flunk one, we won’t progress to the next grade. We won’t make it to the next level. We won’t grow or experience growth.

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Sean Rosensteel: So in the real world, we have life areas we have the areas of our lives that matter most. And they’re different for each of us. If you and I went to school at the same time, Jason.

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Sean Rosensteel: You would have a different curriculum in different subjects and I would have because we’re interested in different things.

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Sean Rosensteel: You might have this analytical risk assessment, kinda like stuff that like

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Sean Rosensteel: Unless you had a really cute teacher or so I was taking all the heart and psychology and other stuff too, right, because

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah, so, and I would have just, I would have checked the box it bit less credits.

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Sean Rosensteel: Though so anyways but we’re different. So if I said, Jason. Tell me about the areas of your life that matter most. You might say, Oh, I’ve got my health and maybe that breaks down into my spiritual or my religious health my mental, emotional health my physical health.

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Sean Rosensteel: You might have your wealth, whatever that might look like career business philanthropy retirement budgeting income revenue. I don’t know.

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Sean Rosensteel: Then you have your relationships. Maybe you have a partner, significant other, you’re married, you have children.

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Sean Rosensteel: We each have different areas of life, just like in school, we studied different subject areas, but the point is we can’t

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Sean Rosensteel: Flunk. One of them back in school. If you flunk it’s not the end of the world. You have to repeat the grade right not ideal.

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Sean Rosensteel: An area that’s important to you because you’re too focused in your career that could be disastrous. That could be a catastrophe, you could, you know, your relationship could end to end.

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah, your children could could hate your guts. You could develop a habit that’s going to kill you. Maybe it’s a cancer causing habit of some you might have regret because you missed a window to spend time with some people who were aging. You know that that to me that scares me.

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Sean Rosensteel: And I kind of live my life back then when all of this happened. I got this notion that or this belief, I should say that, you know, I look at life.

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Sean Rosensteel: Like, I believe that in our final moments. Many of us will wonder if we passed or failed at at life at this thing we call life. So while I believe, life is a gift. I also look at life like it’s a test.

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Sean Rosensteel: And I think a lot of us would be a lot more fulfilled and less stressed and more

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Sean Rosensteel: You know, feeling like we’re balanced out a little bit if we looked at it from that angle from that perspective, you know, more frequently because I don’t want to make it to my dad, we are talking about the death of Yvonne Elliot’s

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Sean Rosensteel: Earlier, how, you know, in the final moments of his life. He asked the question, What if my whole life has been wrong.

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Sean Rosensteel: Like that, that is haunted me from the moment I that those words just, you know, shot right out from the page when I read that many years ago. And I’m into this stuff, Jason. This is how I think I’m kind of a weirdo, but

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Sean Rosensteel: I want to live a full life. You know, I want to experience everything I can. I want to be present in the moment with with you on this podcast with my kids at dinner when I get home with my wife.

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Sean Rosensteel: Like we all deserve to have a fully fleshed out joyful life. And I think it’s on each and every one of one of us to discover. Well, what does that look like for me.

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Sean Rosensteel: What does that look like based on my past, based on my current condition my existing circumstances where I’ve arrived today.

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Sean Rosensteel: Like it’s never too late. And I think what’s exciting. And I think, you know, this my book published back in

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Sean Rosensteel: late July. And I think one of the reasons why it’s done so well. I’m a self published author I handled. Some of the market at all the marketing myself. Got a little help from the wife little assist there but

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Sean Rosensteel: I think one of the reasons why it’s done so well and gain so much traction is because just like that event of bankruptcy did for me 10 years ago, I think this pandemic.

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Sean Rosensteel: It’s just external circumstance. It’s this what what in a movie would be called an inciting incident, right, like in the first 90 seconds. There’s an explosion. You get hooked get attached to the character.

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Jason Mefford: Now we got to fix it.

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah, and I got it. Now how’s he going to come out, you know, out alive from this one. So I think this pandemic has been that inciting incident. That’s kind of woken. A lot of people up from their slumber.

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Sean Rosensteel: And they’re starting to reassess where they are and what they really want out of their life and things are changing the day to day is different. A lot of people are working from home a lot of

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Sean Rosensteel: Career. People are getting a taste of what entrepreneurship is like because they’re at home now trying to balance all this stuff out.

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Sean Rosensteel: Find some privacy for the business and focus time balancing out interruptions from their significant other children, whatever it might be.

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Sean Rosensteel: We’re all going through some pretty uncertain times and we’re being forced to go beyond our comfort zone. But what I found is that that’s where the growth happens

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Sean Rosensteel: You don’t want to be too far out of your comfort zone. But if you have a circle and you draw a little x just beyond the circle. Like that’s actually good for us.

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Sean Rosensteel: I think that’s actually good for us to experience some some new things every once in a while, and certainly there’s a lot of

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Sean Rosensteel: Bad things going on with the pandemic. We’ve lost tons of people worldwide and

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Sean Rosensteel: We probably both have people close to us who we know and I’m sure a lot of the listeners do too that we’ve lost. I know a lot of people

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Sean Rosensteel: Who haven’t been able to be with their loved ones as they as they pass or transition. So I’m not saying this is like, oh, this is such a gift. Let’s celebrate this. It’s an awful.

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Sean Rosensteel: Tragedy that’s currently taking place. But I think if we can look at this and say, you know, there’s a lesson here.

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Sean Rosensteel: You know, there’s a lesson here for all of us to learn, you know, at the same time I see a lot of good things happening. I see a lot of

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Sean Rosensteel: Community, I see a lot of connectedness, even though it’s via zoom or whatever it is online. I feel like we’re appreciating things that have always been around, but we haven’t noticed before. That makes sense.

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Jason Mefford: Oh yeah cuz there’s there’s tons of stuff around us that we don’t notice right because because even even, like you said, you know, as far as

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Jason Mefford: You know sometimes we get we get so enthralled with maybe one aspect of our life.

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Jason Mefford: That other things fall apart. Right. You know, and back to your school analogy. It’s like, oh, man, you know, if I love chemistry. And I’m just like all into chemistry and I get an A plus in chemistry.

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Jason Mefford: But I ignore you know three of the other subjects and I fail in them.

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Jason Mefford: You know, in school, you don’t get to pass forward. So that’s the same thing, right, if you’re if you’re doing great. Let’s say you’re doing great in your career. Right. But you’re not taking care of your, your personal relationships that need to well

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Jason Mefford: Relationship. Sometimes there’s an end in divorce. That’s like a failed relationship right

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Jason Mefford: Or the or the other, the other side around. I see a lot of people to that, you know, maybe focus so much on some of these other areas that their career.

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Jason Mefford: Never goes where they where they want to. I mean, I know some great guys. They’re amazing fathers and husbands, but they just can’t make a living, you know, and they’re scraping it out, you know, working two or three jobs to try to do it.

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Jason Mefford: So, so we’ve got to have some of that balance in our life in really, you know, like I said, it’s, it goes back to learning and the experiences and everything as well, too, is it’s like we can learn how to communicate better

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Jason Mefford: We can, you know, learn how to manage our finances better we can learn, you know, new professional skills, maybe that make us more more accessible in the marketplace right

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Jason Mefford: There’s all these different things that we can and should be learning and then kind of focusing on. Okay, what is most important in my life at this time.

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Jason Mefford: Right. I mean, I mean for me. I’m an empty nester kids are all gone second marriage, but now I’ve got aging parent issues, right. So it’s like every, every phase of life is a little bit different.

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Jason Mefford: For each person, and I think it’s great you know again how you kind of put some of that together in the book of kind of assessing where you’re at and what’s most important now. Yeah, as well, right, because we have to make those choices.

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Jason Mefford: In our life of what’s most important for me now.

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah, it’s. Yeah, it’s great. And I think we need to get we need to remove this idea that it’s a once a year.

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Sean Rosensteel: Occasion where we come up with a resolution or two.

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Sean Rosensteel: I like to see people do it more frequently you know reassess our lives more frequently. I think that’s so important because your priorities are moving targets.

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Sean Rosensteel: Maybe those things don’t even matter because your values priorities, things have shifted, but you haven’t kind of recalibrated and caught up with those things yet.

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Sean Rosensteel: And I think also this idea of work life balance or just balance in general, I think that’s a dangerous idea. It’s a destination that we will never reach

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Sean Rosensteel: And I think this idea of, you know, I think if we could ship the destination to a verb, instead of balance being this now. And if we can shift that destinations.

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Sean Rosensteel: In our mind and say the destination is actually balancing. It’s a constant never ending state of balancing because, to your point, just a moment ago.

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Sean Rosensteel: You’re in this phase of life now. So while these focal points are these areas that mattered, are no longer relevant currently

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Sean Rosensteel: No, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment those expectations are going to crush you. And I think what we really need to start doing is like

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Sean Rosensteel: Why don’t I just be in motion constantly with this because I’m just a lot happier when I am when I’m balancing constantly

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Sean Rosensteel: And I look at it like investing almost right. Jason’s like what’s the magic of investing over a lifetime have, you know, have more

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Sean Rosensteel: Upside days than downside, you know, have more positive days than better days. You can’t control everything you’re not going to have good days for an entire year straight. There’s always going to be something

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Jason Mefford: Well, and I think is even though the term balance. I love what you just said, I’ve never heard anybody say it like that, but go from balance to balancing because the idea of balances, you know, we think of a fulcrum or a teeter totter right to where

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Jason Mefford: I don’t have any kids at home, but I love what I do. Right. And so sometimes I I love to work right. I mean, I would. There’s more sometimes nothing more than I would love doing this so

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Jason Mefford: If my wife and I don’t have something planned, you know, she might choose to watch TV. I’m in here working because I love it. Right.

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Jason Mefford: The thing and then to remind me to kind of come back.

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Jason Mefford: You know, and it’s like that throughout our whole life right but but i love that idea of stopping and assessing where you’re at, you know,

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Jason Mefford: Figure out what what works for you. I guess right but but i would say 90 days or less is usually probably good. I don’t know if that’s been your experience, but it’s it’s way better than trying to wait for a whole year.

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Jason Mefford: Share because a lot of things can happen in between there.

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah, absolutely. I think you can do a lot of little short term course corrects on a weekly basis. That’s what I always recommend takes five minutes. I mean, I’m not sitting here, recommending you take five hours on a Sunday.

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Sean Rosensteel: But just some real short term things to help you, day to day, week to week and then yes. Every 90 days or so.

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Sean Rosensteel: So I think every 90 days to really climb the tree and, you know, get some fresh perspective from 30,000 feet and see how your years going

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Sean Rosensteel: You may need to course correct some major projects along the way to help you do whatever you’re looking to set out to do that year. But I want to go back to something I love what you just said. Did you mentioned the fulcrum.

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Sean Rosensteel: That’s not what I’m going to do because I lose every time I respect nature I respect the laws of the universe. I’m not going to trick gravity and you know be gravity at somebody. Well, you’re talking about balance and I look at that, like a bike.

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah, I mean, it’s so elementary, but like, how do you not fall off the bike you move

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Sean Rosensteel: Me. But the point is, like, you move forward. You have to be in motion. It’s that momentum that keeps the bike balanced.

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Jason Mefford: Because yeah, if you’re, if you can never you’ll fall over one way or the other, unless you’re moving. And that’s the hardest thing. You know when you’re teaching a kid to learn how to ride their bike right they first off, they wanted to be stable right and then

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Jason Mefford: Right. And it’s like, no kid, you know, that’s why you push them and kind of get them going start pedaling. And once they kind of get past that and realize, hold it. Yeah, if I just pedal then everything’s gonna be okay.

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Jason Mefford: Right. It’s a good life lesson though, too, because sometimes we want to sit around and kind of wallow and, you know, blah, blah, blah. Woe is me, but it’s like just make some progress and you’re going to get the balance back

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Sean Rosensteel: Yeah. Now, that’s awesome. I just taught. I’ve got a soon to be seven year old four year old and a two year old and we just taught this summer, you got

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Sean Rosensteel: But we taught my son Oliver and my daughter, Alice, how to ride their bikes and night, Alice, who is for actually picked it up. She’s incredible Oliver, who’s also incredible not so much at a bike beginning but

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Sean Rosensteel: It was hard for him because he didn’t want me to let go. And he also didn’t want it. It’s counterintuitive, right, because you’re like, I don’t want to fall and get hurt. That’s why I’m not pedaling and moving

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Sean Rosensteel: You don’t want to fall. I don’t want you to fall, but you have to trust my guidance here. And I told him about the law of balance and the law of momentum. And I said, there’s a lot going on. You have to have faith that what I’m telling you, works.

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Sean Rosensteel: And you have to get into this different habit versus putting your feet down because what he would do. He was hesitate. Right. So he starts going a little bit. But then he would want to take his feet off the pedals and

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Sean Rosensteel: The law of balance going to kick in. You’re going to be perfectly fine. But it’s that risk reward. You know, it’s like you have to believe that the risk is worth the reward. So when I’m talking to people and I’m training you know clients on like sitting down on a Sunday for 15

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Jason Mefford: Or 20 minutes, you know, to review their calendar for the week to minimize conflicts in their schedules.

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Sean Rosensteel: Or to plan or prepare for a meeting that they might have Tuesday morning that, you know, they would have rolled into like a hot mess. Five minutes late, sweating like crazy because they weren’t prepared.

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Sean Rosensteel: When I’m recommending these things and then going over the areas of your life giving yourself a grade, not one through 10 but A through E. Give yourself a letter grade because

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Sean Rosensteel: I used to do this and I would have sevens across the board. And I’m like, I’m fooling myself because I feel good about a seven out of 10

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Sean Rosensteel: But who am I kidding here. Like, I’m just comfortable and I’m really slacking so I started changing that to a through f. And then I even started calculating the GPA my life. Once I had those on a 4.0

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Sean Rosensteel: So then I’m like, Oh my gosh, I’m like a 1.8 out of four like I’m doing worse today at, you know, 32 years old. This was years ago. Then I was in school, like I’m worse than a C average student and this is my life. I only get one shot at this. I’m married, I think I had one child back then.

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Sean Rosensteel: So that was a big wake up call. And so, but I recommend people do that just weekly so they can catch things. It takes two minutes to do something like that.

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Sean Rosensteel: And in it to catch things before they get a little you know momentum is a powerful force, regardless of its polarity. Right. So if you go

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Sean Rosensteel: Have Bingo. If you’ve got momentum in the wrong direction. The longer you’re in that direction, whether it’s unconscious or whatever the harder it’s going to be to reroute that momentum. Pull it in a U turn and go the other way you

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Sean Rosensteel: Know, so I think it’s important that we do that on the short term just quick little check ins.

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Sean Rosensteel: To make sure, hey, you know what, I’m kind of off here. Hey, I, you know, had some and I was angry with my significant other. This way I had some outbursts with you know him or her. This week, or

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Sean Rosensteel: You know, I didn’t get along with that employee, you know, we should. I should really correct that maybe this week, I can sit down, have a meeting with my

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Sean Rosensteel: Direct report or with my manager whatever and just kind of clear the air a little bit because it could happen again and again and 10 times and I’m fired or she’s fired or, you know,

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Sean Rosensteel: It’s like these things if left unchecked can turn into like something cancerous. Right.

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Jason Mefford: Well, so having those those little self check ins is important. You know, like you said, doing it weekly. You know, I mean, if you’re a leader you should probably be doing a little bit of each day you know as well so that you’re prepared for the next day.

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Jason Mefford: You know, and thinking about it and all these different facets of your life as well. But I know too because one of the things we started talking about before we, before we hit record that I kind of wanted to wrap up on

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Jason Mefford: You know, here to is this whole idea that you had because it’s important for us to do this individually, and we should be accountable and responsible to do it.

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Jason Mefford: But this whole idea that you had around extracurricular activities, you know, with your school metaphor.

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Jason Mefford: And in getting involved with like minded people. I wanted to kind of wrap up with because I think, you know, at least for me in my life. I’ve seen that. What I’ve been involved in those type of communities. It’s helped me keep that momentum.

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Jason Mefford: Or helped me get going.

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Jason Mefford: Right. It’s like if your son had gone out and tried to learn how to ride his bike by himself.

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Jason Mefford: Good luck. Right. But because you were there, there was a community, if you will. You were helping him you know how to do it, you’re helping to bring him along to

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Jason Mefford: Let it seems like that’s the, that’s the cherry on the top of the Sunday, if you will, that when we finally have something like that in a support system to then you know the power of many is greater than the power of one

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Sean Rosensteel: Sure, yeah. I love that I agree with you wholeheartedly.

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Sean Rosensteel: Communities give you accountability. They give you coaching, they give you camaraderie.

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Sean Rosensteel: It’s so important, and I learned this very late in life, because

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Sean Rosensteel: My, my parents were religious enough but they they gave me a choice, and I wasn’t very religious, and so I never really had like I didn’t go to church every Sunday. Like a lot of my peers, did my parents dead and

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Sean Rosensteel: I never really understood the value of a community.

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Sean Rosensteel: Up until probably eight, nine years ago. And when you can surround yourself to what you suggested with people who are like minded and they are looking to

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Sean Rosensteel: They have the same desires that you have looking to you know move towards the same things when they’re struggling with the same things that you are

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Sean Rosensteel: I talked about Napoleon Hill earlier but you know he talks about the the power of the mastermind.

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Sean Rosensteel: And how one brain plus one brain doesn’t equal to it equals three or more, because there’s just this magic that takes place.

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Sean Rosensteel: And you don’t need a big community, you could do to people. I mean, I have accountability meetings with

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Sean Rosensteel: Certain people in my inner circle every two weeks, and it’s 90 minutes of magic because I have blind spots. They have fresh perspectives, vice versa. It’s an amazing meeting that takes place.

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Sean Rosensteel: So you don’t have to have a big community, but it is so important. And I think the bigger the community, the better because you get more perspective.

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Sean Rosensteel: You get more of that camaraderie, you get more accountability, you get more coaching and guidance and you have more people that that can really empathize.

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Sean Rosensteel: With whatever it is you’re struggling with like I years ago I looked at, you know, your, your, what’s the old saying like, you’re the average of your five closest

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Sean Rosensteel: You know, and now I’m so blessed to say like, I look at some of my the people I connect with on a daily basis. And I think what’s difficult and I struggled with this for a while. It’s like my wife is not into growth. I mean, she is to a certain degree, but for me it’s like an addiction.

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Sean Rosensteel: I love the pursuit of knowledge. In fact, every once while she had this this issue and I don’t remember what it was about six months ago, but she had like this burning desire to just get the information she needed

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Sean Rosensteel: And fix it and for like an entire week, man. She was consuming information. She just devour and books. I was just like wow you’re on fire. I love to see you this way. She was inspired. Yeah.

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Sean Rosensteel: And and and I want to live my life like that always and what’s neat about being in the real world and having multiple areas is like

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Sean Rosensteel: Life can be fascinating. If you know what to look for. And if you know what to tune into and when you can get to a place where you’re open to belong to a community for a long time. I was like, I’m just independent. I’m going to do this on my own.

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Sean Rosensteel: For a long time, I’m like, I don’t need anyone’s help

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Jason Mefford: If it’s our ego, you know, that’s thinking, well, I already know it i don’t i don’t need somebody else. I’m not sure if it’s really the ego or if it’s just that we’re scared to admit to other people that were human

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Sean Rosensteel: Are feeling like a community might be something that could benefit you. Because one of the other things. Jason is like I’m a big fan. We’re talking about laws today, right. I’m a big fan of the law of reciprocity.

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Sean Rosensteel: And what I’ve found is if I want to get something like if there’s something out there. I want to get. I wanted to get to the next level in my business or I want to get a book published or written or I want to get to the next level with my relationship or anything.

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Sean Rosensteel: If I ever want to get something I always like my go to places like how can I give it first.

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Sean Rosensteel: Like how fast and how rapid, can I give this thing I want to get to other people because the law of reciprocity magically kicks in and all of a sudden, it gets returned spades.

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Sean Rosensteel: So what I love about communities and the ones that I feel most connected with the ones that I’m most fulfilled by are the ones where I go all out and participate and I engage and I really try to add value to the other members of the community.

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Sean Rosensteel: Because I find that just attracts all the solutions and all the connections and other relationships I need. I mean selfishly

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Sean Rosensteel: I try to make the first move, and give because I just trust that whether it’s karma, you know, whatever you want to call it. I just trust that it’ll come back and if it doesn’t

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Sean Rosensteel: I’m okay. I’m okay. Because I delivered some value. I tried to help someone else out. I tried to serve to the best of my ability, and I feel good about myself. I wasn’t sitting, you know, in the corner just not participating because of my ego. Right.

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Sean Rosensteel: And what’s so neat is because I hear people and I wrote about this in the book.

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Sean Rosensteel: You know you if I wanted to get rid of my fear of public speaking. I used to freak out. So I joined Toastmasters for about 18 months and that community was unbelievable.

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Sean Rosensteel: There are like knitting communities in all local areas there are cooking classes like they’re just can be anything you want. You can find a community for and

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Sean Rosensteel: Now that it’s covert because I hear a lot of, well, I can’t do that anymore. Yes, you can. There are online communities, LinkedIn, Facebook.

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Sean Rosensteel: Work with other people and share things with other people who are like minded going after the same things struggling with the same things and you can make some lifelong friendships and back to what I was saying about my wife. I used to. I used to

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Sean Rosensteel: Have a really hard time that she wasn’t into the same things that I was into and I wasn’t respectful of that.

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Sean Rosensteel: I was always like, Gosh, you know, if she would only be more growth oriented if she would only be. And I’m like, you know, I need to respect and appreciate and love her for wherever she is. She does. She does that to me.

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Jason Mefford: Well, and that’s why it is it’s so important. And that’s why I’ve been. I’ve been trying to push it. And I mean, again, you’re, you’re just

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Jason Mefford: You know, yeah, you can have them for your, you know, professional life, obviously, but there’s so many different facets.

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Jason Mefford: And that it to me. It’s so fascinating and wonderful right that we all have communities where we can go. We just got to reach out and do it, but that that makes us, that gives us a more whole life.

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Sean Rosensteel: But that’s how I met him, and we’ve known each other for eight years and we’ve done some podcasts things back and a lot of collaborations and just like two months ago, I realized I learned that he was a pinball like that never came up for it.

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Sean Rosensteel: And when I would travel, I would look for people around the hotel. I was staying at I’d put out the alert and I’d have plans that evening. I mean, you can find communities for anything you can possibly imagine. I mean, it sounds funny, but your war react. I mean,

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Jason Mefford: Isn’t going to get you through we’re multi dimensional people and the more actual connection that we have with other people, you know, whether it’s through these communities or what have you, the more that we learn and grow and develop in all areas of our life.

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Sean Rosensteel: To my entire life. And I just simply swap out the world. The word room with the world with the planet.

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Sean Rosensteel: You know, so I’d like to think that. And that, for me, is part of the definition of intentional living is leaving this world in better condition, then when you arrived, and I think we all have the potential to do that.

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Jason Mefford: Well, we do if we, you know, are responsible, and we actually try to do things intentionally and if that because if that is our intention, then we can accomplish it.

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Sean Rosensteel: Well, Sean. Thank you.

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Jason Mefford: Thank you for coming on. It was great talking to you again, my friend, and yeah.

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Jason Mefford: Matter. They know I’m kind of, you know, I’m. What do you say a weirdo. Right.

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Jason Mefford: You can go down a really bad path. But yeah, you know, the, the more holistic, we try to live in general.

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Jason Mefford: You know, it’s great. So I appreciate you talking taking the time today and you know for putting out the book and the good that you’re doing in the world as well so

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Sean Rosensteel: Thank you.

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Jason Mefford: Thank you.

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Sean Rosensteel: Thanks for having me, Jason. All right. We’ll talk to later, man. Okay.

Fire & Earth Podcast E106: Leading in an Imperiled Industry During a Crisis with Alana Tillim

In today’s episode we speak with Alana Tillim, who is an entrepreneur and entrepreneurial coach, about how to lead a successful business during these troubling times.
From taking care of yourself first, valuing other people around you, to not letting those past good times cloud your weaknesses, we lay out the roadmap towards
prosperity during covid.

Learn more about Alana at https://sbdancearts.com/ or email her for coaching options at: [email protected]

Listen in at: http://www.jasonmefford.com/fireandearthpodcast/

Transcript

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Jason Mefford: Welcome to another episode of the fire and earth podcast, I’m your co host Jason method.

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kathygruver: And I am Kathy gruver and we are so excited to have another guest. I have known this woman, a very, very long time. Another Santa Barbara native. We’ve got a lot of them here today talking about resilience and leading through change welcome a lot so excited to have you.

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Alana: So excited to be here. Thank you. What an awesome crew.

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kathygruver: Oh, thanks. So tell us a little bit about you, your background how you got to this moment in time.

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Alana: Well, I have owned my business Santa Barbara dance arts for 23 years and I founded a nonprofit in 2004 that believes in supporting emerging artists and

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Alana: Often and financial support and affordable rehearsal space and access to the arts.

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Alana: But in recent years I have stepped actually out of the classroom. I used to teach and choreograph a lot and focusing more on entrepreneurial coaching. So I’ve been had the opportunity to do speaking at conferences and help small business owners.

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Alana: Grow and empower themselves and as someone who’s led through several crisis’s several changes in the world. I feel like it’s really provided me with tools.

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Alana: And I think what’s happened in the last few months of really set the stage to help have me do what I’m really enjoying which is helping others, and I think

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Alana: Kathy and I have been friends for a long time. I love her work. I followed her closely and I just feel like we share such similar values in terms of how can we help people.

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Alana: Be better for their community for themselves and I’m just really excited to be here and share, you know, maybe a little golden nugget for someone that might help them on their journey.

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Jason Mefford: Well, I think that’s important because, you know, again, as we were talking before we hit record. It’s not our first rodeo for all of us. Right. We’ve been in business for a long time.

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Jason Mefford: Not the first time we’ve seen things like this. It’s not going to be the last time, but a lot of people, you know, especially, you know, post 2008 I mean people haven’t been in business for 20 years. And so some of the things that they’re going through. Now they’re kind of like

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Jason Mefford: You know, freaking out. And so having somebody like you be able to step in and help you know share, you know, first thing

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Jason Mefford: I mean, hopefully you’ll that you’ll go through and you’ll give us some some ideas for some people to be thinking about. But, you know, one is just calm down to begin with. Right.

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Jason Mefford: But anyway, I don’t want to steal the thunder because you’ve been doing this and I’m glad that there’s people like you in the world because there’s a lot of people struggling and people need help.

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Alana: Your artist. Artists are innovators, so I feel like I think that that’s the most wonderful thing about sometimes I think the arts are treated as second class citizens.

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Alana: I live in an orphan industry, you know, we’re not a sport. We don’t have a lobby behind us like gyms, or like

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Alana: You know restaurants do so you really have to advocate for yourself. And I think Jason, you really nailed it. And I think I love having Kathy here because that self care if we don’t put that life mask on ourselves first

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Alana: We aren’t able to lead anyone, and I look at how I cared for myself. Your past prices. I was the last one on the menu. And what I realized is I needed to take care of myself first so I could lead effectively and so

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Alana: That’s why I think you guys are such a great team because you kind of touch on both those points. So, yeah.

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kathygruver: Jason always gets a life mass first

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Jason Mefford: Like fend for yourself.

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Jason Mefford: So, you know, I guess, you know, as, as people are because obviously we’ve been going through 2020 has been a year, unlike any other. Right. I mean, my dad’s almost 90

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Jason Mefford: And you know he lived through the Great Depression, the Second World War, and he’s like, I’ve never seen anything like this. Right.

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Jason Mefford: So I mean it. It is a big, big change. I mean, how do, how do you kind of help people, you know, deal with this. Because like you said you’re

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Jason Mefford: I think the arts are very important for us as humans. Right. But a lot of times that really kind of gets shut out or people think of cutting those things out of their life first so

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Jason Mefford: How are you, you know, helping other business owners are helping them and kind of doing stuff different now than what you’ve done before.

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Alana: So I’d say as far as an in general opportunity that I’ve offered to those that I chat with whether they’re in the dance industry or not is to really have people

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Alana: Take a minute and I think what you really need to. I think everybody when they get into that fight or flight mode, they want to, you know, they panic, they react. They spend a lot of energy.

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Alana: Talking about all this negativity and they just don’t take that pause and not be and what I think is so important. There’s so much chatter

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Alana: Everybody is a doctor, an epidemiologist right now, a psychologist and all of those things. I think you’ve got to kind of rally. Who are the people in your corner that are experts in their field.

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Alana: I have a doctor on my text messages that I know I can call or, you know, send a message to if I really want some advice. I have a great contact at the health department. I have a great accountant.

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Alana: I have a mentor. If you don’t have a mentor know find someone who can support you and I had to seek it out.

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Alana: And I think once you get clear in each of your arenas of your business, then you have to get quiet.

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Alana: And you have to make the decision. And you have to look at it from a financial standpoint, from an operation standpoint and from a people standpoint. And what I’ll say right now. I feel like the people standpoint.

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Alana: Is actually the place where I’ve had to start because the reality is I am one person.

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Alana: And I cannot do this alone. And as someone who’s been in business for 23 years. The hardest part is letting go and empowering others when you’re so used to doing everything

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Alana: All the rest will follow, but you have to be decisive. You have to be clear about what you want. After speaking to those experts, because if you let everyone in your ears. I mean, you are going to feel so

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Alana: Pulled in a million directions. And that’s again that self care isn’t just about meditation and, you know, physical exercise dancing arts. It’s also about taking time to get clearing your thoughts.

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Alana: So that’s something I definitely recommend when I sit and coach people and sit with them to help lead through this. I think that’s universal. Yeah.

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kathygruver: devil’s advocate, though. Where do you find those people and how do you know which ones actually feeding you the truth.

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kathygruver: Because if you look at what happened right now with the election we just went through half the country was getting information that they thought was 100% true and we’re probably sitting here going, how did you believe that crap you know the MO whose side you’re on.

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kathygruver: So how do you discern the it’s sometimes the loudest voice is the one you listen to. But the loudest voice might not be the one that actually has your best interest at heart.

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kathygruver: So how do you distill that down without, you know, asking the Google and going with, you know, crazy Joe’s blog. How do you find those people

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Alana: I think I had a chance to listen to Mike McCallum speak not this last summer that summer so it feels like last summer.

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Alana: Last year, right, and he talked about, he wrote the book clockwork, and he talks about building systems in your business. And one thing he speaks about is really like.

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Alana: Thinking about where are the people that you admire people that you see with success. Where did they spend time. Who are they and I think once you start with that then you can start

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Alana: Seeking out the individuals that you have a sense of trust. So for example, I know.

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Alana: Some individuals in our own community that are very well respected, I kind of asked a few people and vetted them. So I think, you know, you want that long term.

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Alana: Relationship. You want someone who’s known someone for 20 years you want someone that has credentials and experts. I’m not going to ask my acupuncturist about accounting

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Alana: But, you know, guess what your acupuncturist might have a ton of opinions about accounting and I think you nailed it. The loudest voices are often often the ones that you actually should be listening to

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Alana: You actually have to seek out those quiet experts and vet them and go to people that you trust if someone has been successful in their business.

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Alana: You know them well enough personally to know they’re grounded. They have a good sense of mental health and balance and their own life.

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Alana: And they’re able to keep all of that in some kind of balance and usually feel like that’s a good place to start. You have to vet people and I ask people for advice and realize, wow, this is not

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Alana: You know, I ended up finding a woman who works for the IRS she sits on the Oversight Committee and helped write the legislation for the PPP loan. You just have to dig in and find them. That’s definitely better than the lady at Trader Joe’s that had a lot of a

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kathygruver: Lot of those. Yeah, you’re right, everyone.

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kathygruver: The second and it’s so true. The second we have something wrong with us or we have an issue. Everybody has an opinion on that. My uncle said you should do. You’ll usually, you know,

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kathygruver: Everybody becomes an expert on that. So yeah, I agree with that you said before we got on air that success masks failure. Yes. Talk about that.

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Alana: Know, after 23 years like Jason was saying this isn’t my first rodeo. We were really blessed and fortunate to have a banner year and 1920 season for us. We kind of track academic seasons and

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Alana: You know, I thought everything was great. And what coated has helped me realize is, oh my God, if we started taking some of these more decisive spending cuts. If we were more

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Alana: Decisive with some of our, how would we utilizing our people, if we were having individuals with higher pay rates doing higher rate work.

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Alana: And really making sure we’re hiring employees at an appropriate rate for the work that they are doing well. We could have, like, move some chips around and really saved the business and money and actually had more success during our received great times

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Alana: Prior to this, you’re seeing. I think spending is a huge area of blind spot.

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Alana: Culture I speak a lot on culture and teams in your business and I work in the land of women and mothers and artists and it’s a beautiful group to work with. But at the end of the day, there’s lots of emotions. There’s lots of processing and I think

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Alana: And I would have never done that had we not had this opportunity to kind of crack the egg open and see the vulnerabilities on the inside.

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Alana: But I think if you are finding success and coven a, you know, awesome.

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Alana: I’m envious. But I’d still say take a pause, like, analyze, where are the areas that you can change because this is such an opportunity for us to make massive changes in our businesses to serve us to serve our customers and to serve those people that work so hard for us.

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Jason Mefford: You know, we were talking about the loudest voices are not necessarily the ones to listen to. But it’s the more quiet and I think, you know, as we were talking to about kind of taking that pause

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Jason Mefford: You know feelings that we’re having and the things like that. And that’s really where the answers usually are.

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Jason Mefford: And since I deal so much with corporate type people. The first thing that they want to do is just start slashing costs laying people off. Right. And I always discourage them from just doing that indiscriminately because the problem tends to be is they end up getting their business.

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Jason Mefford: Too far. And then when things turn around. They actually can’t come back right and and one of the points that you made before about taking care of your people first.

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Jason Mefford: Like you said, it’s, it’s not us. It’s the people around us that actually create our business right

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kathygruver: What I was just saying, I know there’s fear around that, too. And I know when everything hit with

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kathygruver: Kovac like my business stopped. I mean I in person massage hypnosis guilt. No one was loaded in my office. So for a little bit. I was not working at all. And I thought, What do I do with my assistant

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kathygruver: Giving her income so that that could play for my virtual assistant has been working like crazy.

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kathygruver: Because I have all this, this back end stuff that I decided, look, now’s the time to do that sort of thing. So even if it’s a small thing, bringing somebody on to help you with

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kathygruver: Anything is going to help you know keep people employed keep them having purpose. You know, if you don’t have a reason to get up in the morning.

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kathygruver: You know, all sorts of things go awry. So I think it’s just getting over that fear. False Evidence Appearing Real and actually stepping in and making some different choices.

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kathygruver: Even if they’re wrong sometimes it just takes making that one choice that one step forward. So how do we get people out of that fear Ilana and moving forward.

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Alana: Well, I think it’s kind of like I remember early in the business like that you hear people say that old adage, you got to spend money to make money.

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Alana: And that’s so counterintuitive when you’re looking at your bank account and seeing really scary numbers and I mean

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Alana: You know I may have been in business in 23 years but you never forget that feeling. Yeah. And again, this isn’t my first rodeo. You know, I live through times

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Alana: You know well into my business where you looked at that scary bank account balance. And I think the reality is, is you do have to spend if you don’t buy the ad

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Alana: Nobody’s going to come take your class people are the same way and I lived through the years of trying to get, you know, a little

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Alana: Not investing the money and the resources in finding good people and

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Alana: Sometimes if you take that chance and you spend a little bit more you’re going to get a more credentialed individual and that

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Alana: That’s your freedom, like you said, like that’s the opportunity to have the talented person that’s going to have that intellect that

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Alana: analytical skill set that inherent drive to make choices for your business when you can’t be there and it may cost you a little more, but it’s good to see you, headaches,

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Alana: No boundaries boundary breaking late night test messages training. I mean, I don’t even know that statistic. I wish I had it at my fingertips, but like hiring and training new people.

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Alana: Is like 10s of thousands of dollars so infrequently. That’s that fly in our appointment. When we have to do that. So I think it’s just been great to know that it’s going to be hard. I mean, longevity leading through crisis. It’s all a long game.

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Alana: And I think to get out of the fear, you have to stop looking in the moment and look ahead, and I know there’s a cool

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Alana: I’ll draw it out for you guys. This is something that I use as a tool.

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Alana: I’m not an artist, visually, so forgive me. So I have these little steps here and I put in the top where I want to where I want to be. What’s the dream. And down here I put where I am.

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Alana: And then you fill in the sandwich in between. And I can tell you, it’s you. It’s worked for large high level decisions that involve massive investments or people that have worked through real estate challenges corporate clients that I’ve worked with

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Alana: And it works with a small decision that you’re making in terms of a staff member and it’s so rudimentary and it’s so simple but it’s so universal

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Alana: And I think it’s one of those things where, get out of the fear. Where do you want to be. Do you want to have an assistant. When you come out of this.

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Alana: You want to take care of that person who’s hurting and you think about where you are right now. I have no work and you did it, you feel be in between. What are the tasks that are going to help me in the long game.

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Alana: How can I invest in a human being that in the long run is going to make my life easier and bring dollars in the door.

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Alana: And that can be a people decision, it can be spending decision or it can be a life decision and again taking the pause to do that little analysis and you’ll feel a lot better that fear will just start melting away. Yeah.

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kathygruver: Well, and Jason I talk all the time about two different things. One of which is what do you really want, which is the first question you have to ask yourself if you don’t know what to put on that top tier, then you can’t fill in the blocks you don’t jump into an Uber and say, take me somewhere.

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Alana: Right.

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kathygruver: To my destination and you hope they find the most efficient route to get you there.

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kathygruver: And the other thing is, what are your values and if you value family, time, relationships, you don’t want to be in the office 60 hours a week when we can go into the office, you know, if you value wealth, fame, and, you know,

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kathygruver: Whatever the next one would be, unless it’s so not my value. I don’t even know.

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kathygruver: Then that’s going to look very different. So identifying your values and what you really want helps you fill in those steps, you know, and I think so often we miss asking ourselves up

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Alana: in a coma. You almost have to like have like a two sided, one for each one, because that’s going to move. I mean, literally, the Health Department last night told me

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Alana: Gym and fitness may not open. That’s the category, we’re in. We’re about to be, you know, for anybody listening to this in the future, you know, we’re facing in California where I live. Another shut down.

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Alana: But the website of the California Government says, I’ll be able to operate. And she said, well, don’t be surprised if it changes in five hours. Yeah.

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Jason Mefford: Well, and so you know that’s that’s good. As far as the flexibility, right, because again it’s the

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Jason Mefford: You know if you know where you kind of want to go, then you can start kind of coming up with those little steps, right. And I know a lot of times

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Jason Mefford: Especially entrepreneurs get overwhelmed at that point, they’re like oh my god there’s so much stuff. I have to do.

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Jason Mefford: You know, but it’s like, look, if you know where you’re going, what can you do for the next 15 minutes 30 minutes, whatever it is.

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Jason Mefford: To help you get that much closer to it right but but you bring up because especially in in uncertain times as well. Right. And I spent a lot of time in risk management. So that’s all about uncertainty. Right.

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Jason Mefford: Is week we can’t accurately predict the future. We don’t know the events that are going to happen, but we can focus on managing the impacts.

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Jason Mefford: That various things could have for us. Right. And so if you can focus more on those areas or try to come up with a couple of different solutions.

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Jason Mefford: Based on the impacts of whatever you think maybe coming, even if you have to change it a little bit. At least now you’ve got a couple of plans, you’re not you’re not always flat footed

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Jason Mefford: Every time something happens, right. So, I’m sure, again, you know, like yesterday you hear. Hey, tomorrow you might be shut down. I know this state website it says it’s okay.

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Jason Mefford: But, you know, in five hours, you could be shut down. I’m sure as a business owner, you aren’t going all crap. Well, that’s just too bad.

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Jason Mefford: You’re coming up with some sort of contingency plan to figure out, okay, if we can’t open tomorrow, what are we going to do right because you’ve got people people relying on you. You’ve got clients to serve. How are you still going to get it done.

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kathygruver: I dance there. I

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Jason Mefford: I know but but what are you gonna do, you know, regardless of the of the circumstance that we find ourselves in, because we still get to choose. Right.

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kathygruver: It’s about adapting. It’s about adapting and pivoting and changing. And that’s very scary changes incredibly scary animals don’t like to change nature doesn’t like to change. You know, it’s we resist that. Yeah.

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Alana: And decision fatigue. I mean, I think there’s a fine line about having a long game I think Kathy’s question was great. I think the long game is going to help you get out of fear.

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Alana: But I think if you start especially leading through a crisis like we’re going through right now. But I mean, again,

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Alana: Life is so uncertain if you start playing out every iteration you will go mad. We’re all we’re all experiencing decision fatigue right now.

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Alana: So I know a piece of advice that I know that’s really helped me is, you know, my mentor had shared the quote you know you can’t build the plane, while you fly it and Cove, it has sort of forced all of us to do that.

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Alana: And in some ways I had learned my lessons prior to this.

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Alana: Really documenting as we go. So we use a project management software we use Monday, there is cello, there is a sauna and I just can’t recommend enough these types of systems to help you stay organized. Because what we have is a shutdown plan.

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Alana: And we dealt with it the first time, and instead of being in March. Once everything sort of got settled of what we were working with. I’m like, well, let’s start with what are the things we did

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Alana: And so we just started documenting it. And so now we have this living checklist and yeah you tweak one thing and you tweak. Another thing, but now that we’re on our 1234 shut down.

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Alana: We have a boilerplate. So all we have to do is just look back at this reassess it

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Alana: And we already know what to do. So I think taking that because, again, if we are just constantly going going, going, going, and we don’t take that pause after we hit a benchmark and say, hey, what did we do that worked.

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Alana: What did we do that didn’t work. And let’s memorializing it because we may have to do this again.

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Alana: And it helps so much if I didn’t have that tool yesterday, would have been a really tough day

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kathygruver: That’s something that’s scalable, I can think about that me as a solo printer, people can think about that in a corporation. What has worked and what hasn’t worked. And I think so often.

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kathygruver: We get to the end of the game and go, wait, what did we do that, actually, how did we get here, you know, we don’t look back and say, well, what route. Did we take because that was actually a really pretty route. So I’d like to do that again.

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kathygruver: You know, I literally I would

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kathygruver: When I would go down to Santa Monica to do trapeze. I would just turn on the phone and let it take me whichever way because I never knew how the traffic was going to be going to LA.

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kathygruver: Never heard of the road didn’t know where I was. It ended up being this ridiculously windy road through the Santa Monica Mountains. It was one way. There was nobody on it. It was the most beautiful drive

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kathygruver: I don’t know where it took me. I don’t remember where it told me to turn because I just was blindly following the instructions, rather than actually pay attention to where I was going.

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kathygruver: Now, I ended up where I wanted to go, but the journey that day was so spectacular. And it’s like, I want to enjoy the journey to

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kathygruver: Even if it’s windy. A little scary. And you’re like, I am glad this is a one way road because no one’s plummeting towards me.

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kathygruver: But it’s like looking back and saying, how did we get here and what worked and what didn’t work. So I think that’s phenomenal advice. I think we get to the end of our life. And we don’t know what worked and what didn’t work so

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Alana: How many times are you like we do holiday cards. When day year. What was that password. Where do I go

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Alana: Because I like it kind of allows you to have your like sort of ways, and I’m a very methodical type a, you know, if you follow astrology. I’m a Capricorn, you know, although

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Alana: Find what works for you. The reality is I have employees on my team that are so organic and sometimes I have to put my foot down and say, hey, look, I need this because, I mean, we always have to get hit by a bus litmus test. I need to know

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Alana: Want their work to feel enjoyable to them. And I just have to honestly say while we have this opportunity. Like, I’m so fortunate I have the most amazing staff that you know allows me to be here.

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Alana: Today, doing projects like this in my life and and they’re really awesome. But they’re all really unique and how they learn. So again, Monday trial Asana works for me to stay organized.

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Alana: You have to find something that works, works for you, but sometimes again these tools can be used professionally, personally, it can be so helpful.

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Jason Mefford: One. I think that’s where it brings up, you know, again, that importance of kind of the pausing

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Jason Mefford: realizing what we did actually documenting it because, again, I mean for scalability standpoint if you’re a solo printer, everything’s up in your head right

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Jason Mefford: But if you’re going to have people actually doing the processes they actually have to you have to document it. You have to teach them how to do it. You have to have some sort of tool.

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Jason Mefford: To help them do it. And as you were talking. It just reminded me one of my favorite Winston Churchill quotes was, you know, the first 25 years of my life. I wanted freedom.

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Jason Mefford: The next 25 years of my life. I wanted to order.

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Jason Mefford: And in the last 25 years of my life. I now realize that order is freedom, right, that a lot of times we want to just be willy nilly shoot from the hip, you know, whatever you want to call it, but you don’t run a business for 23 years shooting from the hip. It just doesn’t work.

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Alana: No 100%. And I think sometimes articulating that I actually had that conversation with one of my I mean most integral team members sometimes

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Alana: You know having that structure. The documentation. It isn’t just having freedom for you or for, you know, so its freedom for you to be able to be with your child if they’re sick or it’s better for me to be able to focus on

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Alana: writing a grant or getting alone or building, you know, something that I need to do that nobody else can do that frees up my time. So when we have these systems in place and ultimately that’s going to serve.

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Alana: You, it’s going to serve everyone. So I think sometimes that concept about how all of our time is redeemed and just taking that extra five minutes to document and create that order, you’re talking about

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Alana: It’s five minutes now but I mean it’s hours later. You ever tried to remember something you did two years ago, and you’re digging out the email and you’re like, how did I do this.

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Alana: Why didn’t write down and even though old methods and procedure documents that are like 800 pages are sort of arcane and at this point. But, you know, we

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Alana: We have to we have to document things we have tools like loom where we can do videos.

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Alana: There’s so many opportunities for us to just take that minute to memorialize and it will save so much time.

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Alana: Down the road to starting over and remembering things is is so hard, especially with everything happening right now. I mean, it feels like

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Alana: Ancient history and and also Jason something that you said that really struck me as I think about where I was a year ago. And what I was you maybe

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Alana: You were laying track for your new year’s resolutions and you were looking at the year ahead. And what were our hopes and dreams going into 2020

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Alana: And what are they now. I mean, I’m sure there was a lot of people that like he had success and prosperity and now that’s all just turned into survival.

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Alana: But that’s still a valuable and important goal. And if we can all just get through this and survive it, and backpedal those steps and my little thing to get there.

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Alana: You know, that doesn’t mean there isn’t time and space to be aspirational, but like create manageable goals for yourself so you can find that order in your life.

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Alana: You know and I know people that are building buildings right now and opening second businesses. That’s personally not where I’m at.

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Alana: So I think figuring out what that top goal is what that value is and being really realistic about it is going to be helpful. Yeah. In this season of life.

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kathygruver: Purpose in the company and not getting lost in the weeds. You know I shouldn’t be doing my own laundry. A lot of you’ve, you

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kathygruver: Put out tasks to other people so that you can do what you’re best at writing grants and doing the stuff that other people can’t do. And I think that’s one of the

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kathygruver: One of the traps when you’re in business for yourself as you feel like you have to do everything. It’s okay to say no to things, figure out what your highest good is in that organization and then give stuff to everybody else to do. So any final thoughts, Jason, before we

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Jason Mefford: You know your whole idea of kind of the, you know, New Year’s resolutions last year. What you want 2020 to be versus what it ended up being right.

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Jason Mefford: Is that you know in back to the earth. The thing that you said before about success hides failure. And I think too that that

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Jason Mefford: What it does is, is trying times like this also really forced us back to those values.

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Jason Mefford: Right when things are good, you know, money’s coming in. Everything’s good. Maybe we kind of forget a little bit how important certain things are to us.

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Jason Mefford: And I think 2020 has done that for a lot of people you know there’s there’s a lot of people that now we’re like, hey, you know what, chasing the golden watch at the corporation.

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Jason Mefford: Isn’t what I want to do, right, there’s other things that are more important. So, you know, personal life business life times like this are actually an opportunity

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Jason Mefford: For us to kind of realign and make sure that we’re exactly where we want to be right because even, even in your life right to me. You’ve had the dance studio. The art stuff for a long time.

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Jason Mefford: Now, you’re kind of working more with entrepreneurs in that industry as well. Right. So you’re aligning to something else. Now that is a bigger purpose for you that that you know to help impact the world so you know anyway.

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Jason Mefford: Whenever we think it’s a challenge. Try to find the opportunity. I guess is the long way of kind of saying what I’m trying to say to the opportunity for us to get aligned and to make the future better than what the past actually was

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kathygruver: Yep, there’s a gift and everything.

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kathygruver: Devil.

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kathygruver: I was a lot of Tell everybody how they can reach you, if they want to talk to you about some coaching or ask questions or come dance with us.

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Alana: So you can visit my website for my studio SP dance arts.com are incredible nonprofit does incredible work with the most challenged youth and provides such healthy opportunities for them. And I can tell you right now.

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Alana: They need it more than ever that is AMP sp.org and if you’re interested in some coaching, you may email me at a llama LA and a SP dancer.com

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kathygruver: Cool. This has been a phenomenal conversation. Thank you for being here and help inspiring us and giving us a couple tools and tips to get through this craziness.

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kathygruver: Jason will let everybody go I’m Kathy gruver I can be reached at Kathy Gruber calm.

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Jason Mefford: And I’m Jason Medford, I can be reached at Jason medford.com so go out, have a great week. Take some time to just pause and and listen to the small voice and quit listening to the loud ones because they’re probably not right, anyway.

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Jason Mefford: And I’m Jason method I can be reached at Jason method calm and with that we will see you on the next episode of the fire earth podcast. See ya.

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See ya.

E128: Control any Conversation in a Remote Work Environment

Have you had a conversation this last month that just didn’t go the way you expected??? If you’re like most people I’m sure you have. Might have been at work, might have been in your personal life … and I’m guessing with the holidays coming there are some conversations you aren’t looking forward to with family, friends, or maybe that staff member you need to deliver a difficult message to about their performance.

In this #jammingwithjason #internalauditpodcast I share how you can control any conversation, get people to take action, and make quicker, better decisions.

Listen to the entire episode at: http://www.jasonmefford.com/jammingwithjason/

Imagine how much more confidence you will have when you know exactly what to say and do so you can control any conversation … even in a remote work environment. When you are ready, join us in the Briefing Leadership Program at: https://jasonmefford.mykajabi.com/caebriefing

Registration ends on Tuesday, 22 December so make sure to get in before the doors close.

Fire & Earth Podcast E105: What’s on your desk #4

In this episode we share a few items we keep around our offices and the meaning behind each one. Not only do you learn a little more about each of us, but each item we discuss ultimately leads to some discussing some tips and wisdom on simple things you can do to unlock your potential.

Learn what an Einstein bobblehead, a tiger tooth, and a significantly shaped “TUIT” have to do with unlocking your potential, and learn a little more about each of us too 🙂

The Fire and Earth Podcast gives you practical advice and keys to unlocking your potential in life and business, hosted by Dr. Kathy Gruver and Jason Mefford. Real, raw and unscripted.

Listen in at: http://www.jasonmefford.com/fireandearthpodcast/

E126: Objective Centric and Demand Driven Internal Auditing with Tim Leech

Which centric approach are you following?
I’m speaking with the legendary Tim Leech about the difference between objective, risk, compliance, process, and control centric approaches … and centric is not the same as based.

Listen in at: http://www.jasonmefford.com/jammingwithjason/ and learn the difference so you can start improving the value you add to your organization.

Risk-based internal auditing is objective-centric when you actually link to key objectives … a critical step most in #internalaudit forget. “Risk ranking an audit universe based on another centric model, does not risk-based internal audit make.” Yoda 🙂

When you are ready to become objective-centric and risk-based check out how you can get the step-by-step process for getting started: https://ondemand.criskacademy.com/p/certified-risk-based-internal-auditor-crbia/?affcode=105582_jpp6czlf

Transcript

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Jason Mefford: Hey, I am very, very honored today to have Tim leech with me and I’m telling you, if you, if you don’t already know who Tim leeches. Then, shame on you.

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Jason Mefford: Because if you’ve been in this industry for any amount of time, you should know who he is and I wanted to bring Tim on today, you know, and kind of introduce him a little bit. He has been around.

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Jason Mefford: The industry for a long time. And one of the reasons that I love. Tim and wanted to talk to him is we both like the word contrarians

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Jason Mefford: Or we’re often kind of viewed as contrarians and I love the message that Tim brings and that he shares with people.

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Jason Mefford: And I’m hoping you know as we go through and talk today, because there’s a few things that I wanted to make sure that we talked about.

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Jason Mefford: That it will help many of you kind of understand and solidify and gel, some of these things that people like Tim have been talking about for 30 plus years.

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Jason Mefford: But people still aren’t getting it. Okay. So, Tim. Welcome, my friend. I am. I’m actually very honored as well to have. You with me so. How you doing, man.

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Tim Leech: Well, thanks for having me. And I appreciate you reaching out to find out about my quote on Prairie.

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Tim Leech: Yes.

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Jason Mefford: I was gonna say it’s funny because there’s, there’s a few of us in the industry. You know, we were talking before about people like Norman to where

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Jason Mefford: It’s you. We say what’s on our mind and what we think people need to hear but it often doesn’t tow the party line, if you will.

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Jason Mefford: And so, you know, people that don’t, you know, preach the religion or tow the party line sometimes kind of get pushed off to the side.

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Jason Mefford: And but but the message that you have, you know, because you talk a lot about objective centric. And so, you know, I wanted to kind of get in and you know because you’ve also had enough time in your career that you’ve seen all of the history in the back in the fourth

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Jason Mefford: But maybe let’s kind of start off talking a little bit about, you know, what is

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Jason Mefford: An objective centric approach and I know you said before that sometimes talking about the other four centric approaches, because there’s kind of five approaches.

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Jason Mefford: helps people really kind of understand what the difference is with objective taking an objective centric approach versus some of these other approaches.

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Tim Leech: Yeah, I think the notion of, I’m happy to explain the notion of objective centric. But also, you know, introduce the others, but

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Tim Leech: It’s fair to say that my entire career has been focused on convincing the world that organizations, both public and private sector would be better off if they aspired to strong first line.

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Tim Leech: Objective centric assurance that integrates all of the efforts of the first, second, third,

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Tim Leech: And in the framework we promote we consider senior executives to be the fourth line and the board of directors to be the fifth line.

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Tim Leech: So I have actively if you were to Google five lines of insurance, you’d find all kinds of articles from Tim leach promoting five lines of insurance but

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Tim Leech: At a 30,000 foot level my whole career has been defined by the belief that organizations would run more effectively and

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Tim Leech: Be better for stakeholders, including shareholders. If all of the lines would coordinate their efforts around the most important objectives that the entity needs to achieve.

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Tim Leech: And that has been the the guiding principle, if you will, from 1985 on when we launched control self assessment at golf Canada.

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Tim Leech: So it’s not just about objective centric. The reason I’m so big on objective set centric is if you want. If you believe that management is responsible for managing risk.

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Tim Leech: I’ve always just said, how can you not believe that management should be able to assess whether their current choices right now or any good or not so

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Jason Mefford: In a part of the whole management.

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Tim Leech: Process. So, you know, very early on I would I you know I would sometimes make jokes at large conferences and I had clients that I would say to them.

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Tim Leech: Look, you know, I don’t mean this in an offensive way. But the reality is, the more in the better audits, you do the less management thinks they need to learn how to do an assessment of their own situation.

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Tim Leech: Somebody that you’re going to come along and do it for them. And you’re going to tell management, the parts you don’t like. And as long as you’re good with a week first line approach to risk management.

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Tim Leech: That’s what traditional auditing does is it assumes it literally assumes management has not done an assessment. Otherwise, the first question you would always ask

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Tim Leech: We’ve decided it’s worth $100,000 internal audit. Fair enough. Wouldn’t you think management would have done a self assessment if if it’s that important to the company that audits going to spend resources.

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Jason Mefford: Yeah yeah well and it’s interesting because, as you said it that way to it’s almost because I’m always interested in the psychology and the human behavior behind it, right, is that

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Tim Leech: Well, in the early days when we were promoting the mantra of control risk self assessment, which is fundamentally a strong first line model.

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Tim Leech: We would have old guard internal auditors that would literally get up right in the middle of the presentation and say this is nothing to do with why would I teach management how to do that.

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Jason Mefford: I did but that’s what they’re saying. Right.

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Tim Leech: It took quite a lot of convincing in the early 90s to convince the AIA that teaching management how to better manage

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Tim Leech: Risks to their most important objective should really be seen as a core part of internal audits job. It’s not seen as a core part of most internal lot of jobs.

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Tim Leech: And and so that’s what we proposed it at Gulf Canada and CEO bought into it and hundreds of clients around the world that I’ve worked with since I went into public practice in way back in

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Tim Leech: And that practice was a mix of forensic accounting controllers self assessment fraud vulnerability ethics and but all of its it’s on that whole you know the I, I took a position for quite a while they set up the CCS a certification.

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Tim Leech: How can you consider a risk framework effective if that’s the case, and the reality is, is if you look at the AIA materials and you look at their most recent guidance on how to assess the effectiveness. They do proposing a maturity scale.

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Tim Leech: That is that is at the lowest level of maturity. If it’s in a high change rate environment.

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Tim Leech: Nowhere in that guidance does it say so. It says, Okay, let’s forget about whether it’s effective or not. Let’s just report, whether it’s what level of maturity. And I said, No, no, no, no, no.

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Tim Leech: And the three lines model is the closest thing yet that the IAA has produced that says the first line should actually assess and report.

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Tim Leech: Yeah, but they said assessment report on risk and I wrote them and said I really wish you’d said certainty of achieving objectives.

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Jason Mefford: Well, because that’s that’s the point where you and I, you know, agree so much on this is that everybody just wants to use the word risk without really realizing what we’re trying to do when we’re managing risk which goes back to that uncertainty of objectives.

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Tim Leech: Articulate and write down during the auditing planning process, just what are the most important objectives of the corporation and, most recently, I wrote a blog post, because they just issued a new way of doing assurance universes.

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Jason Mefford: But it’s still going right back to a process level audit universe, and there’s no linkage between the two.

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Tim Leech: Sure. I think it’s a you know foundation building block for the last 25 years when I run training courses like I always include a module on on so that the people in the class. Get the idea of the different ways you can approach the task of giving assurance. So the five methods, very simply.

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Tim Leech: Now, who decided they should do x. Well, there’s a policy that says they should do X, fair enough.

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Tim Leech: And so that was the earliest form. But the notion was is that no matter what you’re doing. So, you know, in your house at home, you have a process to acquire food.

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Tim Leech: You can think of that as a process.

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Tim Leech: What are the steps and you could flow chart that and you could then decide are their flaws in the process. So, but the emphasis was on documenting the process.

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Tim Leech: We should, we should look at the biggest risks, the company. However, the process us to decide what are the biggest risk usually started in the audit room.

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Tim Leech: But it often does not start by saying before you answer that. Let’s write down what are the 10 most important objectives that must be accomplished by the company.

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Tim Leech: And then you’re putting red ambers and greens and you’re doing likelihood and consequences but rarely, is there an answer to which objectives are most quote at risk of not being achieved.

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Tim Leech: Control centric. A lot of people haven’t had much experience with but it’s it’s actually evaluating your controls against an accepted control model and Canada built one in the 80s, called the criteria of control cocoa for short.

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Tim Leech: United States came along with the first Kosovo internal control financial reporting framework I the correct me if I’m wrong. I think it was around 2003

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Tim Leech: Yeah, they treat the history of Kosovo was Treadway Commission went and studied what went wrong. One of the Treadway Commission’s findings was that nobody agreed with the words internal control meant

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Tim Leech: The first effort at coastal was a five category and a lot of people don’t know that the actual exposure draft of the first go so was a nine category model that was genius. The authors were Coopers and lybrand and it actually did say objectives were the most important category.

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Tim Leech: So coco, coco, coco came out with a five category and the elements you actually had to try and figure out yourself that they were kind of written, but they weren’t nice and crisp and clear like the Canadian one was a fourth category 20 criteria.

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Tim Leech: So I actually converted it into a probably about a 70 or 80 element model under the five categories. So that’s what I call control.

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Tim Leech: Is in essence a control centric framework. It’s saying you should be doing this bunch of stuff. So anybody that writes a framework that says you will look good. If you do these things. So now co when they updated the code causal framework. They did actually turn it into a 20 category.

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Tim Leech: Look, or don’t look like the model that you’re using as the framework to report against. So you’d say do we measure up against. So Sarbanes Oxley actually requires an opinion against the Kosovo internal control framework.

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Tim Leech: Now most auditor skip that step and never really give you one but it literally says in the words that they’re looking for an opinion against the suitable framework right they define what a suitable framework.

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Jason Mefford: But yeah, because in one I think paper one letter back from somebody at the SEC, they said well COSA is an example of one of them, like we mean And everybody’s like, oh, okay. Well, yeah, but you can use any of them.

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Tim Leech: To have opinions, whether they are not in accordance with coastal first from the CEO and CFO and then independently from the external auditor.

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Tim Leech: So that’s a control criteria model objective centric says let’s start by agreeing, what are the organizations or the department or the subsidiaries top

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Tim Leech: Most important value creation objectives. These are the things that are going to make us great drive us forward.

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Tim Leech: And destroy your value of your company and your shareholders. So nobody’s going to ever win the company of the year, because they published fabulous financial statements.

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Tim Leech: But if they published materially wrong financial statements.

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Tim Leech: Security, you lose all your customers social security numbers and credit card numbers and all their personal health data. It’s bad. But, you know, protecting it wasn’t going to make you a great hospital.

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Tim Leech: That’s what objective centric is so we have encouraged people and on our website on the resources page, you can download a nice 15 page summary description of the five methods.

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Tim Leech: And we encourage people to actually inventory look is your internal audit department. So I actually encourage audit committee chairman to ask the CAE.

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Tim Leech: What percentage of these five methods do you use in doing your audit work. So I want you to take all of the hours that the audit department puts in

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Tim Leech: Which combination of these five methods are you using and the reality and most audit jobs, the one they use least or perhaps not at all is objective center.

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Jason Mefford: You know, I use a different term just because everybody’s been talking about risk based auditing. So I had been using the term risk based internal auditing, but it’s

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Jason Mefford: It’s really what you’re talking about, from the objective centric standpoint is what are the what are the key objectives and we go from there. Right. And everything that’s on your audit plan.

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Jason Mefford: In my opinion, should probably come from there. But I think it’s interesting how how you said here to that I want to kind of bring up for people is

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Jason Mefford: If you look at your audit plan. Right. How much of it is compliance centric. How much of it is process centric. How much of it is control centric or risk centric.

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Jason Mefford: Or really goes back to the objective because there. I mean, there is the reality is we have to do some compliance things we might have to do some control things

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Jason Mefford: Just as an expectation. But to me, you know, really, the process and risk even flows from the objective. Right. Is that is that if we really understand what our

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Jason Mefford: Most important value creation or value preservation objectives are, then the risks and the processes that we need to look at are going to flow from that.

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Tim Leech: Yeah. And one of the things that we make very clear is that one of this fundamental flaws and risk registers, is that they take.

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Tim Leech: Risks that relate to many, many objectives and they plug them into a register in isolation.

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Tim Leech: Well, if you took your home and you said one of the risk is that occupants are unaware of that there’s a fire.

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Tim Leech: And then you put it in a risk register and yeah but I mediums and low on it and you decide your there’s going to be a risk owner, but nobody in the house is responsible for safeguarding the health and safety of the occupants.

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Tim Leech: Against injury and death.

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Tim Leech: Company where the audit department has been doing 20 3050 100 audits, a year, you can reverse engineer them and you say, which objectives are implied in the work that was done on this audit. So your reverse engineer and say, well, you wouldn’t look at that you wouldn’t look at that control.

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Tim Leech: The thing and then you and what those tests have always shown me is very few internal audit departments have gone anywhere near the most important value creation objectives.

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Tim Leech: Most of the audit plans are around value preservation and traditional type objectives. And when you say I, you know, look, I’ve just finished reading the strategic plan that went to the board. Show me what percentage of your internal life plan next year is specific on those objectives.

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Jason Mefford: Most of the time on. I’ve asked those it’s yeah it’s even zero

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Tim Leech: Yeah, I can be and and you know that, but my attitude is, you know, I’VE ALWAYS Promoted I’ve used the term supply driven most internal auditing done in the world is supply driven

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Tim Leech: The, the internal audit department walks up decides what they’re going to audit runs it by the audit committee who are busy and don’t really care. I

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Tim Leech: I’ve worked with over the years, the number of really insightful feedback from an audit committee or a senior leadership team on the audit planning is rarely

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Tim Leech: Much and I don’t blame them for that they’re busy people so they just sort of say on unless this is going to bother me a whole lot and inconvenience, my staff, you go ahead and do those audits.

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Tim Leech: And you know, I encourage audit committees to become demand driven. I say look at audit department, you’ve got cost 5 MILLION BUCKS.

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Tim Leech: Why don’t you actually take the time as an audit committee to agree what it is you want them to do in terms of outcomes.

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Tim Leech: I want the customers to tell me what is it they most want from the $5 million in terms of outcomes. And the reality is, is if in fact the, the reality is, is they only want the audit department to pacify regulators and to pacify and keep the external auditors.

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Tim Leech: Okay, and they don’t really expect the internal audit department will ever go anywhere near the most important risk. Fair enough.

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Tim Leech: At least we’ve got it in black and white. That says internal audit department is not to look at the most important objectives of the company. It’s not your domain if that’s the decision that’s fine.

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Tim Leech: But don’t let the internal audit department saying continue saying they’re auditing the top risks when they’re not going anywhere near the top objectives.

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Jason Mefford: But I think it’s interesting the way you just put that is using supply driven and demand driven for your audit plans.

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Jason Mefford: You know when you’re just kind of picking and deciding what you think needs to be on the audit report or in the audit plan, you know, like we talked about. Usually it’s kind of an echo chamber.

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Jason Mefford: In ourselves. We might ask input from a few people. But we just pretty much put down what we want to do audit committee rubber stamps it that’s supply driven. That’s what we want to do.

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Jason Mefford: And actually getting the input and allowing the audit plan to be demand driven by what the executives and the board really want

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Jason Mefford: He has a totally, totally different thing. Now I know and that’s what I encourage people to do as well. It’s like if you want to be relevant, you’ll figure out what actually makes you relevant, it’s what the people need or want

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Jason Mefford: But I get a lot of people that push back and go, but if but if they’re telling me what to do. Then I’m no longer independent and objective.

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Tim Leech: Actually after they’ve been asked to think about it, but on our website on the resource page there’s there’s a five step overview of objective centric and the first step is to agree, what are the most important

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Tim Leech: Object, you know, value creation and now you preservation objectives and we want the leadership team to decide who who in management owns each of those objectives.

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Tim Leech: What level of risk assessment rigor. Do we want to analyze this the risk and the certainty of achieving those objectives. That’s what we call risk certainty assessment rigor.

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Tim Leech: And do we want independent assurance from internal audit on the representation on the state of risk uncertainty from internal audit, the answer is no.

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Tim Leech: So that step literally defines the entire work plan for the risk department if there is one. And for the internal audit department, however.

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Tim Leech: The primary assessor reporter will be the management that only objective, they will be the primary assessor reporters.

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Tim Leech: The risk department will help them do that and put some discipline over it and provide editorial comments on on the product.

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Tim Leech: And if it’s decided that internal audit has a role as an independent insurance provider. It’s not internal audits job to say whether they like the controls or not.

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Tim Leech: Its internal audits job to say has the representation been accurately described in terms of where the weaknesses are, where the strengths are and how that links to current performance being produced on those objectives so

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Tim Leech: It’s very simple diagram. It’s five steps in it literally defines what a demand driven

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Tim Leech: Process looks like and what an objective centric. So if you want strong first line if you believe that strong first line.

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Tim Leech: If you’re going to want to be an agile company, you better be a strong first line company. Well how you going to be a strong first line company.

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Tim Leech: You’re going to be a strong first line company if management believes they should are expected to be able to identify and measure the risks and think in a thoughtful way about how to respond to those risks to increase the certainty important objectives will be achieved. Yeah.

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Jason Mefford: You know I get. I get a lot of people that you know when I’m talking about objective centric and I’m sure you’ve gotten this question.

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Jason Mefford: Over your whole career is, you know, we talked about how a lot of times, artists, staying away from it. Probably because they prefer to focus on what’s comfortable for them what they’ve done in the past, right, what the history has kind of been

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Jason Mefford: Instead of jumping in and looking at what really are the most important objectives in the organization and I get a lot of people that say, Well, I don’t do that because I don’t know what they are.

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Jason Mefford: But when an auditor says, well, but I don’t know what the objectives are, so how can I audit those objectives or when I find out what those objectives are

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Jason Mefford: I don’t know what to do with it. It’s too high level and I’m supposed to be auditing the processes. Right. I hear this all the time. So,

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Tim Leech: What do they want from internal audit. Do they want a bunch of compliance jacking on low level processes or do they want opinions and and input and help

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Tim Leech: Do they want, fundamentally, do they want internal audit to help management manage the certainty that the most important objectives will be achieved. And if the answer is yes.

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Tim Leech: We just want to be able to say we have an audit department. I used to go in a $5 million audit budget, a year and they may be thinking about outsourcing it to Coopers and lybrand and I you know I, I’d say, Well, you know, what’s, what’s your budget is 5 million. And I’d say to them all.

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Tim Leech: Client would sort of, what do you mean, how could you possibly say you haven’t even you don’t even know what they’re doing. I said,

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Tim Leech: It’s not so much whether I know what they’re doing.

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Tim Leech: It’s that I’m almost certain. You haven’t told them with any clarity, what outcomes you want from them. And as long as the primary reason for their existence is to say we have an audit department that does audits the right audit reports.

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Tim Leech: I can do audits and I can write on it reports for $2.5 million you’ve been paying five for people doing audits and doing audit reports.

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Tim Leech: I need you know you shouldn’t have been paying 10 because you don’t know and have not told them what specific things you want an opinion on

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Tim Leech: So, in the absence of clarity of what it is you want from that internal audit function, we could pay look if if you’re feeling you want even bigger savings. Let’s pare it down to 1,000,005 that’ll be a decent assignment for me will do just as many audit reports as they were doing before.

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Tim Leech: And you’ll be able to say Coopers and lybrand is now doing your audits and they’re a world class firm with incredibly deep resources that can be called to audit the most significant risks. A company can face.

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Tim Leech: So you know I don’t like to make fun of it. But the reality is, and when I have this discussion with audit committee chairs why often golf with and and socialize with, say, no, it’s true. So, but here’s the rub. What’s the biggest metric

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Tim Leech: Well, how bad and outcome statement is that that that’s like measuring a salesman on the number and the quality of their sales calls but with

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Tim Leech: Without any clarity on how many sales. Do you want them to me. So, you know, one of the first things I do when I get called into audit to do an assessment of the effectiveness of an audit department.

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Tim Leech: I will spend the time and drive out of the, the senior leadership team and the board. What is it you want from the 5 MILLION BUCKS. You’re spending.

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Jason Mefford: Alright, so go out and download some of the stuff asked to join the LinkedIn group and keep the discussion going.

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E125: Difficult Conversations

How do you deliver difficult messages, without damaging relationships?

Have you ever tried to discuss something challenging with an audit client, and you get some type of condescending behavior or response?

Did the conversation just not go as you had expected?

Have you, unintentionally, disrupted a key relationship because you just didn’t see eye to eye?

I understand. We’ve all been there.

Conversation you were used to having in person are now done virtually. If you are like most people you are still trying to figure out the best way to have these conversations with your staff and stakeholders now that we are working remotely.

There are ways to deliver difficult messages, and not damage key relationships along the way. In fact, it’s EASY when you use Intuitive Leadership, Neural Influence, and Mental Mastery skills, which is what I’m talking about in this #jammingwithjason episode.

For more on this, join me for a free one-hour discussion where we will explain exactly how to make difficult conversations more comfortable and EASY.

Date: Tuesday, December 8, 2020 9:00 AM PST
Cost: FREE
Field: Personal Development
CPE: 1 hour

There is limited seating for this special event and it’s filling up quickly, so register now at: https://jasonmefford.mykajabi.com/difficultconversations2020-12-08

#internalaudit #leadership

Transcript

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Jason Mefford: Welcome to another episode of jamming with Jay said. I gotta get a little extra on

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Jason Mefford: This week, and it makes me laugh. So hopefully, it makes you laugh too. Hey, welcome back. My friend, we are on again. It’s a little solo episode again today.

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Jason Mefford: And before we get started into our discussion today if you’ve been a loyal listener, please share this with other people.

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Jason Mefford: Because if you’re, you know, I’m sure that you’re getting value out of this. And if you’re getting value out of this.

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Jason Mefford: Other people will get value out of the two, but they can only get value out of it. If they know that this podcast exists.

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Jason Mefford: So as I said, You know, I’m sure you’re enjoying these episodes. Please make sure and share with your friends.

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Jason Mefford: You can send them an email or a text and you can even, you know, post on social media, you can post right back to the link

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Jason Mefford: Here as well and say, hey, I’ve been listening and this is great. You know, everybody else, you should listen to and just help me by spreading the word and getting

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Jason Mefford: More out there so that we can help more people because that’s really why I show up and do this.

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Jason Mefford: You know, we’re up to two episodes a week right now. And that’s, that’s my goal is to help people in their life. So the more you share, the more we can help.

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Jason Mefford: Now today we’re going to talk about difficult conversations. And there’s a couple reasons for that, you know, towards the end of the year. A lot of times its annual review time

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Jason Mefford: And if that means that you are a leader of other people. You may have to give them a performance review and and sometimes those are some difficult conversations

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Jason Mefford: But we’re going to get into that more in today’s episode I’m going to go through and talk a little bit about why this has been such a big focus for me right now.

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Jason Mefford: And why I think it’s so important that we start thinking about thinking about these and doing some things a little bit different.

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Jason Mefford: So that conversations don’t become difficult or if they start to become difficult that we can move them back to where they’re not difficult, as well. Okay.

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Jason Mefford: Now I’ll remind you, at the end, but I wanted to at the beginning as well. This next week on December 8 i’m actually going into more depth on this. I’m doing a one hour free webinar.

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Jason Mefford: And so check the show notes, wherever you’re listening, whether it’s it’s on one of the podcast listeners or on the website. You should see the link

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Jason Mefford: In the show notes to be able to register for that free webinar that I’m doing next week where I’m getting deeper into this topic.

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Jason Mefford: And I’m going to share more with you than what I can on a shorter podcast episode like today. So again, just as a reminder, I’ll try to remind you again at the end of the episode.

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Jason Mefford: But you can sign up for that free webinar on December 8 just look in the show notes. There will be a link for you to be able to get to the registration page. Okay, so with that I wanted to just kind of start off here actually asking you a few questions. Okay.

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Jason Mefford: Have you ever tried to discuss something challenging with an audit client and you get some type of condescending behavior or response. Have you ever done that.

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Jason Mefford: You know, have you had conversations that just didn’t go as you had expected.

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Jason Mefford: And, you know, have you unintentionally may be disrupted or damage to key relationship because you didn’t see eye to eye with the other person and the conversation just went sideways.

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Jason Mefford: You know, but sometimes conversations become difficult or sometimes we have to deliver difficult messages as part of the conversation.

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Jason Mefford: And so again, if you’re an internal audit or if you’re a leader you know sometimes you do have to deliver difficult messages.

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Jason Mefford: You know I’m big your little I’m smart. You’re dumb. You know, I’m the boss. You’re the employees. So you’ve got to do what I tell you to do.

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Jason Mefford: I’m going to tell you something that nobody’s probably told you before, but you think too much and you hear that, yes, think too much.

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Jason Mefford: Because the problem is is we get taught to be analytical, we believe that we can think our way out of problems, but we can’t do that.

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Jason Mefford: Right. In fact, the answers usually come from our heart, not from our head and our heart is feeling and our brain is thinking, right. So usually you pose a question in your brain.

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Jason Mefford: And I’ll point you to some other things to be able to help you there but but those are some of the mistakes that I commonly see people making. Okay, so what can we do or how can how can we do this different and especially in a remote environment. Okay.

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Jason Mefford: I’m here to actually share that with you so that your life can be better as well. So without my friend. I am going to sign off.

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Jason Mefford: For this episode. And again, make sure and share this with other people that you know would also benefit from it and I’ll catch you on the next episode of jam with Jason. Have a great rest of your week. See ya.

Fire & Earth Podcast E104: Astrology Predictions for 2021 with Jeanne Mozier

What if you had a crystal ball that could help predict what is coming in 2021? Would it make your life or business easier to plan for and navigate? Of course it would.

We are joined again by our favorite full service oracle / astrologer, Jeanne Mozier to give us a preview of what’s still to come in 2020 and what we have to look forward to in 2021. Think of it as your weather forecast to help you prepare for what is to come.

Jeanne left this world on 26 November 2020, and we are extremely grateful for her friendship, wisdom, and the opportunity to bring you this podcast recording made just days before her passing. She was an amazing woman who left this world a much better place than she found it.

We invite you to learn more about Jeanne’s life at:

https://www.localdvm.com/video/passing-of-jeanne-mozier/6071033/

Visit: https://starwv.com/ for Jeanne’s blog and daily nuggets of wisdom.

#fireandearthpodcast #astrology #2021predictions #jeannemozier

Transcript

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kathygruver: Hey everybody, welcome back to another episode of the fire earth podcast, I’m your co host Kathy Gruber.

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Jason Mefford: And I’m Jason Medford, and today we are lucky to have Jeannie Mo’s you’re back with us. God that your, your episodes are by far the biggest listen to episodes.

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star: Really

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Jason Mefford: Cool. I’m serious. Yeah, like by a long shot. So we are so excited to have you back. I think this is a third third time, right, because you know

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Jason Mefford: Was really kind of a crazy year we talked about that the end of last year that things were coming right so now let’s see what’s happening in 2021 and I’m hoping some better news for us. But hey, we just have to take what’s coming right

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kathygruver: We just recorded as it is.

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star: Exactly. I have been sort of characterizing

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Jason Mefford: That’s good, that’s good.

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star: Primarily because you know there aren’t unprecedented crises every moment.

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star: Every morning, you’d wake up saying, Oh, my God. And what’s going to happen today that never happened before in time. So that’s not going to be happening. However, a lot is happening because basically, we’re going to be building a whole new world in every sector of life.

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star: And I think it’s important to let people know that you know this all starts in less than four weeks. This starts the middle of December.

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star: Making life very difficult and hard and limited on everybody else but Kathy.

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star: So what’s going on, it’s going to affect everything, but it’s very societal very political. And it’s really a total shift in attitudes.

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Jason Mefford: So it’s it’s it’s nice. I mean, it gives kind of hope. You know, if you will, for yeah there’s gonna be lots of changes, but they’re going to be good changes because we’re going to start focusing on some of the areas where we haven’t for a long time.

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kathygruver: Yeah, yeah, I agree with all that and when you said you know Joe Biden’s the healer in this that just, I mean, I almost teared up a little bit because it’s like, I just, I could feel that this entire time. Yes. Oh, yeah.

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kathygruver: So because you do this every year. And it’s, you know, we’re time traveling so by the time people listen to this, you’ll have done it live already. So where can they get the recording the CD, the MP3 however you’re doing it this year.

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kathygruver: Yay, and I have listened to your this will probably be the fifth or sixth year that I’ve listened to your talk.

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kathygruver: Amazing, you know, and we appreciate having you I mean like Jason said you’re one of our most listened to shows and

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kathygruver: We love your approach for people, you know, I’ve had so many people say Lou astrology is BS and it’s whoo, whoo would do that. And I said, No, no, no, listen to God.

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kathygruver: I love that. That’s so beautiful. What a great way to end.

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kathygruver: Everybody go to star at Star WV com or the MP3 GET THE ENTIRE YEAR. She goes through each individual sign so that you know kind of what’s happening with you personally business fashion, health, all that stuff. Jeannie. Oh my god, thank you so much for being here.

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Jason Mefford: And I’m Jason method I can be reached at Jason method calm. So, today was one of those episodes where you probably want to rewind and listen to, again, so

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Jason Mefford: You know, I know. I’m going to do that. And I’m going to be thinking about it. But, you know, lots of hope for 2021 which I think it’s a good thing for all of us. So just go out and make it the best that you can, and help heal.

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star: So starting with yourself.

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Jason Mefford: Starting with ourselves. Because if you think we got to start with herself. You’re right.

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Jason Mefford: So with that everybody will catch you on the next episode of the fire and earth podcast. See ya.

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star: Thank you guys. Bye.

E124: Agile Auditing Doesn’t Mean Faster with Toby DeRoche

We’ve been talking about agile auditing for years, so why are a few succeeding and others are reluctant to embrace it or failing in their implementation?

Agile doesn’t mean faster, and it doesn’t apply to just one part of the audit process. It is a paradigm shift and one of the most important changes to #internalaudit in many years.

I am talking with Toby DeRoche, who has spent the last several years understanding exactly how to apply the principles of agile into the whole audit process in a practical way. What works, what doesn’t, what organizations are really doing that are successful, and is here to share so you can make the shift to agile auditing and avoid the painful learning curve.

Listen in at: http://www.jasonmefford.com/jammingwithjason/

When you are ready for the step-by-step “how to” for agile auditing, learn more about the Certified Agile Auditor Professional (cAAP) course mentioned during this episode at: https://ondemand.criskacademy.com/p/caap/?affcode=105582_jpp6czlf/

Transcript

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Jason Mefford: Hey everybody, I’m back talking with Toby de Roche again and this today. This day this day would be the same as today. I think right so

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Jason Mefford: We’re going to be talking about agile auditing, because I know, I think, well, I know there’s some misconceptions out there about agile auditing what it is. And I know a lot of people are struggling to actually

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Jason Mefford: Put something in practice that works. And so we’re going to dig into that today because

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Jason Mefford: You know Toby’s you you’ve done some work a lot of work on this there’s kind of some common misconceptions that people have and some things that are missing.

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Jason Mefford: And when those things are missing or you have these misconceptions. It’s almost impossible for you to actually switch to an agile approach right

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Toby DeRoche: It is, yeah.

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Jason Mefford: Well, so let’s so let’s jump in because I wanted to talk maybe let’s talk first about some of the misconceptions in the first one that I kind of see, you know, as people think that agile auditing just means they’re auditing faster.

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Jason Mefford: Is that what it is.

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Toby DeRoche: It’s not at all. You know, it’s

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Jason Mefford: It’s oh

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Toby DeRoche: It’s wrong. Everybody’s wrong.

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Toby DeRoche: One of the first things people think is that they’re going to start having these really, really short, really, really fast audits.

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Toby DeRoche: You know, and I’ve even seen people posting on LinkedIn. Like, I’m so frustrated with this whole agile thing. How am I supposed to do an audit and six days.

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Toby DeRoche: Like, well, why in the world would you think you can do an audit and six days like that’s not the point of this, the whole point wasn’t for us to be able to audit pastor, the whole agility idea is that I’m honored in the things that matter right now.

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Toby DeRoche: Yeah. And so, like, you know, everybody should be aware of that right now this is this is we all just loved it. Right. We went through all of our audit planning at the end of 2019

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Toby DeRoche: And then at the beginning of 2023 year plan to trash because it didn’t make any sense at all anymore.

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Jason Mefford: Well, I think the same things going to happen with 2020 on a plans to

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Toby DeRoche: I think unfortunately we’re never going to stop this because our new reality is I need to be able to look ahead and a short time frame. I can’t say what’s going to happen a year from now.

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Toby DeRoche: Things changed with us and it’s hilarious because we’ve been having this conversation for years now about auditing its speed of risk.

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Toby DeRoche: We’re here, right.

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Jason Mefford: So we’ve been here for a long time just people, people aren’t getting it, you

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Toby DeRoche: Know, they’re not. And if you look at people’s a lot of plans and their full compliance and they’re full of socks. They’re full of other stuff.

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Toby DeRoche: And then they try to just squeeze in their risk based work, but that if that’s our focus if we’re truly risk based on it.

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Toby DeRoche: I can’t plan ahead. More than three months because three months from now, the world looks wildly different than it does right now. And so much has changed that things I thought were important back in December.

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Toby DeRoche: By the time I get to June, July, no, that makes any sense anymore, do I need to reevaluate. I need to think about what’s the new priority. So if I’m only planning stuff one quarter out

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Toby DeRoche: And I get into this regular cadence of saying, I’m going to audit plan for one quarter.

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Toby DeRoche: Right now, what’s important to management with their strategic objectives and what’s going on in the world. Here are my audit based on that.

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Toby DeRoche: And I’m do the same thing in March going to come up with the next set. I’m going to come up with the next three months after that and and my plan is that always updating

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Toby DeRoche: To think i can’t i can’t project, realistically, so let me just say for right now I’m gonna take one work.

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Toby DeRoche: Q ones risk assessments as I should do these 10 audits based on the risk assessment now of those I have capacity to do five. So I’m going to pull those five and put that in the queue one because right now that’s what’s important.

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Toby DeRoche: But my capacity might be, you know, here’s what I can do. In total mind is what I know I have to do this quarter. Here’s what I have left.

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Toby DeRoche: So those five extra projects that I’m doing that’s, you know, part of the accumulation of everything that I could have done because everything is going to be based on your capacity.

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Jason Mefford: Is just part of the job at some organizations, right, you still have to do some of those compliance things because you REGULATORS REQUIRE it or whatever else. Right. But in so it’s it’s being able to kind of marry together those two ideas.

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Jason Mefford: And focusing. It’s kind of like what we talked about. It’s not auditing faster, but it’s it’s auditing the things that really matter now.

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Toby DeRoche: You do that right now because it matters right now. You know, we’re rolling out a new system, I need help, and

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Toby DeRoche: read that book I’ve read everything I can get my hands on around this whole idea and the books are good. If you’re just getting started and you’re trying to learn a whole lot about agile.

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Toby DeRoche: And this is where I went. So I got deep into it. I read everything I could read on agile, I went and got an agile certification.

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Toby DeRoche: And then immediately went back and said, Okay, now how do I turn this into an agile Otter process that really make sense. You know what I was talking with people who have done this.

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Toby DeRoche: You know, and then they start saying, Well, I tried can ban and I tried to save. And I tried this and I tried Scrum and like none of that stuff matters to us.

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Toby DeRoche: Because when you really take it all back and say, I’m trying to build an agile audit function. You’re not trying to turn your, your audit department into an Agile project management team.

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Toby DeRoche: You’re taking the best of what agile has and we make it work for us, because that’s really the spirit behind this whole idea.

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Toby DeRoche: You know the Agile purist will jump up and down and say Agile is a mindset. It’s not a methodology. It’s not a process. It’s a way of thinking as we have working, you’re absolutely right. And that’s why we can take the best parts of that idea and we just make it our own

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Toby DeRoche: Because your departments, different from another department, your, your organization’s different cultures, different

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Toby DeRoche: How much capacity you have that mix between risk and you know compliance is all of it is very unique to you. And so, taking the best pieces of it and making it work for you is really the way to go. Okay.

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Jason Mefford: Because you’re trying to push something or again use words like we you know we use audit words already and confuse people. And now,

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Toby DeRoche: And that’s, that’s really why I got focused on this a while back.

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Toby DeRoche: You know, for about three or four years now, we’ve been talking about this.

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Toby DeRoche: And all I hear is theory, all the time. You know, I’ve sat in on conference presentations and webinars and all you know and everybody has the best intentions with this. So I’m not trying to knock them at all. But it’s all very theoretical

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Toby DeRoche: And here’s how you would just do it and they don’t really lay it out in those terms of here’s how I do it. So everything that I’ve been doing for the last month has really been about showing. Here’s how you do it. So let’s stop with that theory. Let’s get down.

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Jason Mefford: And we’re because we’re going to share with you actually some ways that you can actually start making it very practical and give you exactly how to do that. No more theory BS. But actually, how to put it in practice.

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Jason Mefford: In finally move the conversation forward. Yeah, right. Instead of just talking about the theory for like we have been for three or four years, let’s actually get in and actually get some shit done.

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Toby DeRoche: No, no, we must have exchanged and you know anybody trying to put together an annual plan right now. It’s not going to work.

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Jason Mefford: that’s causing him to kind of fail or they they try this, maybe for a few months, or a half a year and then they like, they throw up their hands. I give up. I’m not going to do this, this doesn’t work.

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Toby DeRoche: The others, you know, one of the big ones is that people try to carve out the audit process.

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Toby DeRoche: And just turn one piece of it into an agile process.

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Toby DeRoche: That’s not actually agile. That’s just making it better to work for him. Like, you’re, you’re not changing your process. And this is why people fail because they said well I took my my fieldwork. And I tried to make it agile, so they use all the words.

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Toby DeRoche: But they didn’t get the point. Right. And so they start talking about sprints.

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Toby DeRoche: And they start talking about Daily Scrum meetings and they they’re taking all of this ceremony that goes along with Agile stuff.

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Toby DeRoche: And they’re trying to force it on the audit instead of saying, well, if I if I looked from end to end, from a risk assessment or reporting.

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Toby DeRoche: Then I changed my whole process, then my risk assessment would achieve because it would have been risk based and not entity based way that we know so many people are doing it.

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Toby DeRoche: And then my audience would have been risk based not entity base and then I can take my audit and I can break it up into sprint based on risks and controls.

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Toby DeRoche: And not on some canned audit program that I found somewhere.

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Jason Mefford: I will talk to you out of it will talk you off the cliff with them. Right.

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Toby DeRoche: But once once we change the whole process and the whole thing changes focus and focus now on management strategic objectives. I want to know the risks that I audit to those risks.

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Toby DeRoche: And because I’m doing this in an agile fashion. I’m worried about the risk better or most important highest priority for the export.

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Toby DeRoche: A complete my audit program in those iterations, but based on risk and controls.

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Toby DeRoche: And then when they get through all this. One of our goals is to no longer have that long dragged out press process for getting the audit report out

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Toby DeRoche: Because we actually bake in all of the review and all the conversation into the Agile field work process so that by the end of that audit. I am done.

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Toby DeRoche: And we don’t get caught up in this whole farm over substance nonsense where I’m fighting over every single word in every single issue in the report.

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Toby DeRoche: Because, and I’ll talk about this until I die. The standards don’t require you to make a report.

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Jason Mefford: Just communicate results.

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Jason Mefford: Yeah. Both, both in time, but also in knowing where to focus if you’re using an entity or compliance centric some other kind of audit universe approach. And then, and then we waste a bunch of time in the reporting.

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Jason Mefford: And so, you know, they’re doing agile in the middle. It’s still taking them as much time or probably longer and they’re thinking, oh, well, agile doesn’t work. Yeah, it does. But not when you have acid and

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Jason Mefford: Them. Okay, great. So, what, what other things are kind of missing.

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Toby DeRoche: So I’ll tell you one of them is something we it’s I’m going to blame the nature of who we are.

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Toby DeRoche: That’s right. And I say this as an auditor who’s been doing this for a very long time. It’s just part of who we are. We’re by nature professions, you know, we don’t allow ourselves to make mistakes and we’ve got beaten into us that you’re never allowed to do anything wrong.

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Toby DeRoche: But with this. You’re changing. This is a massive change. Let’s not call it anything else, you’re probably this is the biggest change you’ve ever made to your audit program.

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Toby DeRoche: And so what we’re doing with it then is we’re making major changes and we have to allow ourselves to make mistakes and we have to allow things to bail.

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Toby DeRoche: So that we can then correct them. And we do that without judgment and we do that without holding ourselves, you know, like we’re

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Toby DeRoche: destroying the world and knowledge through the whole program out. Let’s go back to what we were doing, because we’re so horrible. It’s not that bad. You know, like one of the ones that comes up a lot.

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Toby DeRoche: And it’s one of the more common, you know, things known about Agile is that you have these days. These daily meetings.

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Toby DeRoche: We can call them Daily Scrum meetings daily stand up meetings, call them whatever you want. It doesn’t matter. It’s a quick conversation, you get the whole team together. Ideally, you’ve got one of the oddities there with you as well.

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Toby DeRoche: And in that meeting, you’re talking about what what’s holding us up what roadblocks. Do I have. That’s it. It’s such a simple concept to say, Let’s have a quick conversation about why I can’t do my job today.

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Toby DeRoche: You know, I can’t get documentation from Bob or, you know, I needed to have a conversation with Mary, but she’s on PTO for the next week. So who else could I talked to, well, I don’t know, because I don’t know this organization that well.

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Toby DeRoche: And but if I’ve got the oddity there with me. They can fix that for me, probably on the spot. Oh, marries out cool go talk to this on a person

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Toby DeRoche: And that meeting is set up to be something that facilitates progress because we’re on these shorter Sprint’s. So I have two weeks to get this work done.

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Toby DeRoche: And by the end of that two weeks, I need to be done, but if Mary’s out for a week. I’m stuck. I lost half my time.

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Toby DeRoche: One of the things that happens though is that meeting starts to change. And this is a very natural progression. It happens almost all the time.

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Toby DeRoche: It turns into a status update meeting. I’m looking backwards not forwards. I’m not talking about what’s holding me up. I’m saying, Well, here’s what I did yesterday.

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Toby DeRoche: And so in this kind of natural falling apart progression that happens.

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Toby DeRoche: I started giving you status updates. And now I want to know why I’m here because I could have sent you an email for this. I don’t need to be in this meeting. So I’m going to stop coming. Because this is a waste of my time.

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Toby DeRoche: And it takes a strong person to say, you know, here’s what this meeting is about. Let’s stay on task. Don’t forget why we’re here.

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Toby DeRoche: And not let it slip back into some bad practices and I can almost bet money that this is going to happen to you.

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Toby DeRoche: Because every team is going to be doing this all of your auto groups and going to be doing this you have multiple people trying to pull this thing together.

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Toby DeRoche: And when they start to slip and it’s inevitable. You have to remind them, Hey, here’s what we’re doing. And so you have to have some coaching sessions to remind everybody, hey, here’s what we’re doing this meeting. This is for roadblocks.

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Toby DeRoche: It falls apart. Whenever you don’t have enough coaching and guidance through this good consulting can get you through this

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Toby DeRoche: Good consulting sometimes hard to find, you know, a lot of a lot of those consultants come in with so much theory they forget this whole practical idea that people revert back to their old habits and need to be kept on task.

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Jason Mefford: But I think, I think this is important. And again, it’s, it’s a time for us to really kind of look in the mirror.

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Jason Mefford: Right. Because like you said, we just, just because of the personalities that technically the usually gravitate towards this profession.

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Jason Mefford: We tend to want to over plan and we over plan and we over plan so that there’s never any problems right

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Jason Mefford: And that’s exactly i mean that’s why when we talked at the beginning, you know, and some people say well Agile is a mindset, right, it has to be built another culture.

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Jason Mefford: Part of that is, we’ve got to kind of change and realize it’s okay to make mistakes. The reason we’re saving time is because we’re not spending so much over planning at the beginning. Right.

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Jason Mefford: And then like you said actually staying true to what it is that we’re actually doing these, you know, these daily stand up meetings. It’s not new for most of your organization’s

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Jason Mefford: I mean most of my experience was in manufacturing. Guess what happened every day at a certain time right all the supervisors and managers in the plan to come together for about 15 minutes

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Jason Mefford: To talk about what’s on the schedule and what are the roadblocks, or what did we learn from yesterday that are roadblocks for us today and how can we get past that so that the lines don’t go down. Yeah.

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Toby DeRoche: I worked. I worked in retail or felt like forever.

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Toby DeRoche: But I worked all through college. I worked in stores I after college. He went into management in stores. So I was in retail

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Toby DeRoche: In an actual like selling stuff for about 10 years and then spent four years in corporate working in retail and I guarantee you, every store out there you know it doesn’t matter who they are, what brand. They are every single store out there, they start their day this one.

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Toby DeRoche: This is not new.

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Jason Mefford: Okay, so that’s, you know, that’s, that’s one of the things that that usually is missing, you know, what are, what are some other ones. I’m guessing to, you know, that

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Jason Mefford: Some of the other things that are that are missing when people are are trying to do this.

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Toby DeRoche: Yeah, one of the big ones. I think that’s left as we don’t really treat it as a true project.

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Toby DeRoche: You know, we’re transforming our department. And this is something that’s going to involve a lot of people, a lot of time. It’s not something you can just say I’m doing and you know expected to happen overnight.

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Toby DeRoche: It may take a good three months to pull this off from start to finish, because there’s a lot of training involved. There’s going to be some piloting and then coming back and talking about it and then you know tweaking the process.

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Toby DeRoche: So, you know, in the plan that I’ve put together around all this, it really is just taking it piece by piece. So, you know, when we, when we tackle the planning process of how we’re going to start going into a quarterly planning cadence and starting a quarterly risk assessment.

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Toby DeRoche: So we take that piece as a pilot and I’m going to run it through. And I’m going to try it.

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Toby DeRoche: And I know it’s not going to be perfect. The first go around. So we treat it like a true project and we say, let’s do it. Then let’s come back and talk about it.

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Toby DeRoche: And then we work through it and then we move on to the next page. Let’s take field work. Let’s build it all out. Now I have to train the otters.

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Toby DeRoche: Because they really weren’t involved in a lot of the beginning part right they probably don’t see a lot of the risk of us.

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Toby DeRoche: And now I need to train them on what what the impact is going to be to them. I’m training will call them Scrum leaders, right, the audit leads the people that are going to be leading those daily meetings and having a lot of that that

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Toby DeRoche: Bigger leadership aspect to this and teach them what they’re doing. I can’t just say, Hey, this is your job. I have to show up and teach them.

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Toby DeRoche: Same thing with reporting my reporting is going to James I gotta start prepping the audit committee for a different format and getting them ready for this, especially if you weren’t doing quarterly meetings with them.

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Toby DeRoche: The next phase one because this can continue to progress. One of our goals with this isn’t to have quarterly meetings with the audit committee on demand reporting.

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Toby DeRoche: So that at any point ever if the audit committee anyone came to you and said, hey, where we stand on blah, blah, blah. You could say, give me five minutes, I’ll tell you.

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Toby DeRoche: And you can tell them, because all of your work is happening on a regular cadence. It’s never more than two weeks old, you know, everything is always there. And so, as your as you’re producing this for them. You can do it in real time.

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Toby DeRoche: And part of this, I gotta tell you, this is probably one of the biggest things that I’m having a hard time getting audit departments to really go ass.

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Toby DeRoche: Is that, that’s our actual product. It’s audit committee insights. That’s what we do because probably 90% of the auditors when I ask them, hey, what do you guys make all of them, the otter reports.

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Jason Mefford: Yeah, but it’s not it’s not the report is the insight to the audit.

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Jason Mefford: Committee and to management in general.

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Toby DeRoche: The whole point of doing those audit reports that wishes to close out that one job right, that that documented to say here’s what we found. But here, here’s the overall results, it’s not even just here’s the issues we found

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Toby DeRoche: That’s why the standards are always telling us acknowledge what was done well.

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Toby DeRoche: And communicate what needs to be needs to be corrected because all of those insights are good that helps us focus on both sides of the coin.

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Toby DeRoche: And then the audit committee report is the accumulation of all those things that happened in the last quarter.

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Toby DeRoche: Then, well, here’s what I found this week, stick it in whatever system I track this thing and move on. It doesn’t really matter. I don’t even need that formal report.

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Toby DeRoche: And now I’ve moved everything into a centralized location. And now I can start to give you pastor reporting. So all of these pieces just fit together. But it’s a matter of us taking the whole project on

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Jason Mefford: Well, because that’s the thing we do have to go into and grad. It’s got to be in the planning, it’s going to be in the field work. It’s got to be on the reporting and the follow up afterwards as well. And like we said at the beginning, that’s one of the mistakes.

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Jason Mefford: Mistakes like people are making is there just focusing on one one particular area. But I wanted to dig in a little bit deeper into something that you that you said just a few minutes ago because I think

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Jason Mefford: I think, again, this is one of those areas probably why so many people are probably struggling is somebody on the audit team reads a book or goes to a webinar. And they’re like, All right, now we’re going to do agile and everybody get in tow. And let’s just start doing

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Jason Mefford: Right. And they start throwing out these terms and everybody’s looking around, like, Okay, what are we doing right it’s it’s one of those where we tell them what we’re going to do, but we never show them how

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Jason Mefford: Badly that they’re actually going to do it right. And I think, again, that’s why you know one person in your team.

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Jason Mefford: Reading a book isn’t going to get it done right. Actually, you know, you’ve got to have pretty much everybody in your team actually trained up on what to do in just reading the book is not the training. Right.

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Toby DeRoche: It’s not, it’s not at all. You know, think about what we do.

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Toby DeRoche: Everybody in your department. They all have a different role.

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Toby DeRoche: And there’s going to be very specific training for, you know, chief executives and directors, because they’re going to have more influence from, you know, sort of the book ends. They’re going to be the ones focusing primarily on risk assessments build and then report that stuff out.

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Toby DeRoche: The team itself. The bulk of the audit department, they’re going to be more focused on the field work aspect, but now they need to know how did they get there.

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Toby DeRoche: From the audit plan and now they need to know where that’s going from an audit report because they need to feed into those other areas.

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Toby DeRoche: The part of us to think about it like we’re doing continuous Chris when i doing field work and stuff flows right back into the risk assessment for the next quarter.

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Toby DeRoche: So there’s this continual cycle that flows into these things. And so there’s going to be different types of training for everyone.

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Toby DeRoche: And as we were starting to put this stuff together we can break them down into those different pieces but there’s absolutely going to be training you do for every single person on the team, and it’s not as simple as, let me just go read a book.

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Jason Mefford: No. Well in it. And it’s, you know, again, I mean, how long have you been working in this area in reading the books and trying to apply everything

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Toby DeRoche: It’s been like three years, it’s not

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Jason Mefford: It’s only been like three years. Right. Okay. So, so again, folks, you know, here because I know a lot of you that are listening are probably gone. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, but how do I do it.

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Jason Mefford: Well, guess what Toby’s figured out exactly what to do and the how of doing it right. I mean, he spent three years going through all this stuff.

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Jason Mefford: And figuring out how to actually apply it to internal audit in a practical way.

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Jason Mefford: Right. So again, I guess you got a choice, right. You can spend three or four years trying to figure it out. Going to different webinars or conferences and reading different books and trying to figure it out yourself or you can just let Toby tell you exactly how to do it.

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Toby DeRoche: You guys really want to read this stuff. I can give you

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Jason Mefford: You know, again, I’ve got to assume a lot of people are at that point now where it’s like we’ve been talking about this for how long, but how do I actually do it right, which is why I’m so excited. You know, for us to be be talking again to

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Jason Mefford: That you’ve actually done that.

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Jason Mefford: And you put everything exactly together for people so they can get the training, but they don’t just get the training, they actually get all the little templates and the other stuff of exactly

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Jason Mefford: How to do it. It’s not just, again, you know, like we said at the beginning, a lot of people are kind of throwing theory out there, but you’re giving people practical stuff they can actually apply and start doing today.

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Toby DeRoche: Yeah, and I tried to keep it just as straightforward as possible. You know, so even when we start putting together in this training that we that we built out the actual agile terminology it’s immediately followed by here. So we actually

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Jason Mefford: Right, so, so it’s like, I mean, it’s almost like learning another language. Right.

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Jason Mefford: Yeah, okay. Well, what is this word. What am I used to seeing this word as right. So part of it is learning some of the the nomenclature. But, but, making it easy, right, like this is what agile calls it, this is a term you’re used to probably hearing. So when you hear this thing fat right

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Toby DeRoche: And then, and then all throughout the training as we start to like refer to people.

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Toby DeRoche: Oh, you’re going to hear Scrum Master a lot right clad agile. People love Scrum Master as a term. It’s just something that it’s a very big role. It’s a very important job duty. So what I’ve done is every time we use it as a scrum master, who is the audit lead

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Toby DeRoche: Trying to keep it back. I don’t want to hide from this language, but I also don’t want to become the focus

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Toby DeRoche: I don’t want you to get so hung up on using this terminology that that’s all you’re thinking about want you to know it that way. If you do have other people in your organization who are who are agile now and they start using these words. I want you to know what they’re talking about.

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Toby DeRoche: But I don’t want that to be the focus of the training because watch a webinar for that stuff. This is really meant to be guided

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Toby DeRoche: All the way through from start to finish. How do you go about capacity planning to do this to figure out what I have to give to my plan.

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Toby DeRoche: How do I go about the risk assessment, what should I include in my risk assessment. How does your workbook.

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Toby DeRoche: And I’ve built in templates. I’ve even shown examples of using different types of software, things that are free, that are out there.

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Toby DeRoche: There’s templates that are baked into it. Again, there’s a workbook that’s included that even takes you as far as guiding you through the letter to write to your audit committee.

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Toby DeRoche: That you can explain this to them because you probably going to need to let them know

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Toby DeRoche: This is a pretty big change that. Here’s what we’re planning on do that even when you follow this out and it builds that out like a maturity model to show you, here’s where I am.

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Toby DeRoche: And then helps you form that into a letter that says here’s what I’m doing now. And here’s what I do. I tried to just guide you through it. Every step of the way.

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Jason Mefford: Well, because that’s, that’s why I think this is this to me and I’ve been feeling this way for probably a year or so is this is probably the biggest seismic shift to internal audit you know we’ve been talking about risk based agile actually is a way to

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Jason Mefford: Hopefully, get people past them saying, or thinking they’re doing risk based but they’re still just doing the old bullshit right

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Jason Mefford: Yeah, and actually get them to doing it kind of the right way.

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Jason Mefford: And I love what you said is, you know, if you remember when we talked, we were talking about some of the mistakes, right. A lot of people just try to apply this on fieldwork know

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Jason Mefford: You’ve actually shown people. Exactly. So how does your planning changed how does your risk assessment change.

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Jason Mefford: Right. How do you go from a one year plan to with, you know, a one year forecast with a three year rolling kind of a three month rolling out three year rolling. Hello.

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Jason Mefford: Three months rolling how you actually implement it in fieldwork, but then also how you change the reporting at the end of it, right. So again, if people just

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Jason Mefford: Follow the process, walk, you know, step by step through the process that you’ve laid out there going to be successful in doing this right and

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Toby DeRoche: Moving I truly believe that they will be and the program is built so that no matter how big or small, you are this works.

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Toby DeRoche: So if you’re a smaller group. And you’re thinking, well, I don’t need this because I only have, you know, three or five people. Yeah, absolutely. Do you probably need it more

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Toby DeRoche: Because you’re going to be in a better position to have an actual impact on that organization, the really big departments.

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Toby DeRoche: Same kind of thing goes, they’re going to have the ability to go from what they’re doing that traditional model to agile, but there’s a whole lot more people involved.

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Toby DeRoche: So they may need to break this thing up a bit more and do it in pieces, but they’re just going to do the same process and laying it out. They just many to do a few more phases.

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Toby DeRoche: But this is something that’s going to apply to every single audit department doesn’t matter what industry you’re in, really does have any impact of, you know, where in the world you are what we want to work in this is something that’s going to hit every single one of us.

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Jason Mefford: Well in 2020 is only sped up the process to

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Jason Mefford: It i mean it’s it’s made it’s made it

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Jason Mefford: More necessary right now that we actually, you know, kind of jump into this and that’s why I’m I mean I’m so glad

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Jason Mefford: That you took these three years. And again, people, three years it took him three years to come up with all this stuff. Right. So don’t think you can go shortcut it

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Jason Mefford: In like a month by reading a book just use what he’s actually already put together from over three years.

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Jason Mefford: Of studying of talking, you know, with people figuring out what works, what doesn’t work because here’s the beauty of this right

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Jason Mefford: You don’t you’re afraid to make mistakes. You don’t have to make some of the same stupid mistakes. Other people are making because he’s heard you learn what most of the people have been doing wrong. So you just follow the process. You don’t have to make some of those same mistakes.

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Toby DeRoche: And, you know, this is, this is where we take our own medicine. We would never allow somebody else to say, well, I’m going to keep doing this way because it’s the way I’ve always done it.

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Toby DeRoche: We’re in that position right now. You know, the way we’ve always done it doesn’t work.

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Toby DeRoche: It’s it’s a broken model that just doesn’t work anymore and we already had a lot of the pieces ready for us. You know, there was enough research that had been done there was enough that have been written on it. It was tons of theory.

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Toby DeRoche: But now, now we need to move right this is our call to action. We have to do this now. Yeah.

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Jason Mefford: Well, for those of you that have been sitting here is you’ve been listening to this and you’re like, Come on, tell me where can I get it. How can I do, what do I do what, where do I go. Where do I go, Well, Toby.

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Jason Mefford: Has put together a course certified right so it’s got certified in front of a to. We’ll talk about that in just a minute but certified agile auditor professional

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Jason Mefford: As well, a full course that walks you through step by step exactly what you need to do, along with the templates and other things like that. So you hit the ground running right now.

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Jason Mefford: And like we talked about this isn’t, this isn’t just something for like one person in your department to get this is something that really, if you’re going to be serious about doing agile and not just dip your toe in it. But if you’re going

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Jason Mefford: To be serious.

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Jason Mefford: This is something that you should consider probably your whole team actually going through and learning. If you really want to be successful in

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Toby DeRoche: Absolutely. You know, because if you’ve got a group sitting there and you need them all on a common vocabulary.

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Toby DeRoche: They all need to go through this training.

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Toby DeRoche: This the training is really designed to cover the full audit lifecycle end to end. And now everyone needs to know all pieces.

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Toby DeRoche: Because we’re all going to have some sort of a play inside of it, your audit staff is going to need to know how they got to that point. How did the audit get to me.

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Toby DeRoche: She needs to know the risk assessment process.

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Toby DeRoche: And they’re going to be feeding things under the reporting that you’re going to be using from a management point of view, to send to the audit committee. So there’s really no

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Toby DeRoche: There’s no piece that we can say, well, the audit team needs to know this, but they don’t need to know the rest of it. Everyone needs to know the false prophets

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Jason Mefford: Well into kind of the, the other side from it is you know we’ve talked before and there’s there’s research out there, one of the three big areas that people are looking to change and to do something different on one of them is agile right

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Jason Mefford: And so, you know, the other thing that this course does for you is you get a certification.

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Jason Mefford: In this as well. So what does that mean, right, like, Well, why do I need a certification this well. There are lots of Chief audit executives looking for people

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Jason Mefford: Who know how to do this. Right. So yeah, you can go get your Scrum Master, you can go do some other stuff, but it still doesn’t help you

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Jason Mefford: Translate that into doing on it. Right. That’s what Toby has been doing for three years. But this actually certifies and proves to other people.

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Jason Mefford: That you know what you’re talking about. When it comes to Agile auditing which from a personal career standpoint is a huge plus because what you’re going to see, again, is she founded executives are looking for people with a skill set, but those people do not exist.

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Jason Mefford: In the marketplace right now.

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Jason Mefford: So going through getting a certification like this actually proves to a future employer.

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Jason Mefford: That you actually know what you’re talking about. Because it’s a real certification. You got to take a test, you got to prove that you actually understand it.

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Jason Mefford: But you also have all the tools that go along with it. So you can actually perform and implemented as well. It’s not just a theoretical you know piece of paper, you can actually do it. Yeah.

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Toby DeRoche: Think about it like this, if you’re out there and you’re putting yourself out in the market and there’s an apartment, who has already made the transition to Agile

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Toby DeRoche: And they’re looking at a big stack of paper, all these resumes and when they’re looking through that they’re thinking this is all fantastic and I’m going to bring this person in

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Toby DeRoche: Not only do I have to train them and what my department does my company culture. I also got to break them have all these old habits now of being a traditional process based on Twitter.

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Toby DeRoche: Don’t but if you walk in with a certification. You just save them a whole lot of time because now you already know how to do this.

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Toby DeRoche: So you’re not you’re walking in with a huge advantage over everybody

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Toby DeRoche: Who’s really still stuck in that traditional way of work because you’re walking in knowing the concept, knowing how to do it all the ins and outs from end to end. And it’s a huge advantage.

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Jason Mefford: It makes it much easier. Having hired lots of people over the years, that’s one of those things that sticks out and especially. So again, like you said, whether

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Jason Mefford: Whether the department has already taken that and they’re already doing it. So now they want to hire people that already know it.

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Jason Mefford: Or if they’re in the process of trying to change or move that way, usually on new hires, they’re going to be looking for people

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Jason Mefford: That have this skill set and we see it in data analytics already, I think, I think I’ll get the numbers right I think about 1010 or what was it 10% of the people in audit have audit.

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Jason Mefford: And data analytics background 30% of the jobs are asking for people with internal audit and data right same thing is going to happen with Agile auditing.

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Jason Mefford: The, the number of job postings and other things, requesting or having, you know, requiring, if you will, that is going to go up as well, which again for your career is a great place to be in. If you already have it.

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Toby DeRoche: This is, this is one of the things I expect to start seeing popping up on job descriptions, though, you know, right now we start to see

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Toby DeRoche: They’re looking for people who have this many years and I’m looking for somebody who has CIA or assist or whatever other certification.

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Toby DeRoche: I fully expect to start seeing I’m looking for people certified an agile, because this is something that is massive. I mean,

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Toby DeRoche: This is we cannot stress enough. One of the biggest shifts we’ve ever seen happen in order

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Toby DeRoche: I mean this is as big as going from what we used to be checklist, your risk based now we’re we’re moving from traditional to an agile process it’s it’s a massive undertaking and this is a chance for us to get ahead of it.

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Jason Mefford: Well, it is and Toby, you know, again, I know we got to kind of wrap up for today but but thank you for actually putting this out there and, you know, glad to be here trying to help spread the message as well because

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Jason Mefford: Like I said,

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Jason Mefford: Clearly, I think, I think personally that this is one of the biggest seismic shifts when done right, but you have to understand how to do it right. This isn’t something you can half ass.

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Jason Mefford: And go read a book and think that you’re actually going to doing doing it, you’re going to make some of those same mistakes. Other people have

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Jason Mefford: After three to six months, you’re going to throw your hand up and say, I can’t do this, but you can do it if you actually follow the process and just, just take the course get certified

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Jason Mefford: Do exactly what’s Toby showing you to do.

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Jason Mefford: You’re gonna be successful in it.

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Jason Mefford: Yeah. So tell me, thank you for taking the time today and you know again. So we talked a little bit about the program will make sure down in the show notes is a link to it.

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Jason Mefford: But, you know, whatever you do choices. Up to you. But whatever you do, this is the future. And so you really need to get in jump in with both feet.

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Jason Mefford: And and actually learn how to do it. Get out of the theory and actually learn the step by step on exactly how to do this. And thank you, Toby for putting that together so people can actually do that.

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Toby DeRoche: Now, it was an absolute privilege to get to do it. So I’m just hoping that we can influence. Lots of people get them out ahead of us.

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Jason Mefford: Well, and help them do their job easier to

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Toby DeRoche: Hang out and do their jobs better. Yeah.

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Jason Mefford: Exactly. All right. Well, thanks. Toby will have to have you on. Again, I’m sure.

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Jason Mefford: Thank you. Thank you.

E121: Your Title Doesn’t Make You a Leader

Have you ever worked for a horrible boss? If you are like most people, a couple of faces just popped into your mind.

We’ve all worked with horrible bosses who didn’t use Intuitive Leadership, Neural Influence, or Mental Mastery … and it’s HARD to be a leader without them, and painful for the people you work with if you don’t.

I’m talking about #leadership in this #jammingwithjason episode. Technical skills and a fancy title, doesn’t make you a good leader. In fact, you may be a horrible boss and not even realize it.

What does it take to be a leader with executive presence who can navigate through the politics, the good times, and the challenging times? Listen in at: http://www.jasonmefford.com/jammingwithjason/ to find out.

When you are ready to start practicing and getting the skills to make you successful when you get in a game time leadership situation, join the Briefing Leadership Program at: https://jasonmefford.mykajabi.com/caebriefing

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